Here is the situation.
I am the father and have had my two girls (ages 2 and 4) for very close to 50% of nights and weekends, on an almost every other day basis, for about 10 months.
My ex has picked up the girls from daycare on most days including the days they sleep with me, against my will. I have numerous emails to her telling her I disagree with her picking them up on my days. I am now taking action and going to school and daycare in attempt to get my kids on my days. She has been there at the same time and will not allow me to take them, and so far I have not wanted to create a scene, so I let her take them. She will then drop them off just before dinner or as she sees fit.
We have an interim agreement in place (template obtained from the internet), signed by both of us and a lawyer that states we both agree to 50/50 time sharing (signed about 18 months ago). There are no details of days and times. She moved out of the marital home 10 months ago.
She is now attempting to claim she had primary care of the children for the last 10 months and full child support.
She is attempting to get custody of the girls every school night, although she would allow me access before and after school and on weekends. This would still put her over 60%.
I want to maintain 50/50 time sharing and equal care of my daughters including drop offs to school, pick ups, bedtimes, nights, meals, etc.
She is threatening litigation.
What are my chances?
I am the father and have had my two girls (ages 2 and 4) for very close to 50% of nights and weekends, on an almost every other day basis, for about 10 months.
My ex has picked up the girls from daycare on most days including the days they sleep with me, against my will. I have numerous emails to her telling her I disagree with her picking them up on my days. I am now taking action and going to school and daycare in attempt to get my kids on my days. She has been there at the same time and will not allow me to take them, and so far I have not wanted to create a scene, so I let her take them. She will then drop them off just before dinner or as she sees fit.
We have an interim agreement in place (template obtained from the internet), signed by both of us and a lawyer that states we both agree to 50/50 time sharing (signed about 18 months ago). There are no details of days and times. She moved out of the marital home 10 months ago.
She is now attempting to claim she had primary care of the children for the last 10 months and full child support.
She is attempting to get custody of the girls every school night, although she would allow me access before and after school and on weekends. This would still put her over 60%.
I want to maintain 50/50 time sharing and equal care of my daughters including drop offs to school, pick ups, bedtimes, nights, meals, etc.
She is threatening litigation.
What are my chances?
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