Here's the piddly-crap post i never wanted to have to post.
I am taking Ds x 2 to a cottage for a few nights and the ex is demanding that i provide contact information other than my cell phone and a location other than the small town where the cottage is located.
I'm a 'moving forward' type of person. But in the past she has not provided me with same and i have not demanded it. Moreover, i don't trust her with the information as she has, in the past, threatened to pick up the girls wherever they are if there is something going on she doesn't like. Now if this were all amicable i wouldn't hesistate. But this isn't out of country, this is within a hour and a half of the home, and I just want to enjoy a little anonimity without worrying about her or some representative of hers, showing up at the door.
To boot, it's a friends cottage and I don't feel great about giving out their contact information to someone who i honestly don't trust with it.
And no, there is nothing in our divorce order that states, i have to provide it in this instance. Common sense would say that we would do so, but common sense has too often given way to undermining time with my daughters...
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I am taking Ds x 2 to a cottage for a few nights and the ex is demanding that i provide contact information other than my cell phone and a location other than the small town where the cottage is located.
I'm a 'moving forward' type of person. But in the past she has not provided me with same and i have not demanded it. Moreover, i don't trust her with the information as she has, in the past, threatened to pick up the girls wherever they are if there is something going on she doesn't like. Now if this were all amicable i wouldn't hesistate. But this isn't out of country, this is within a hour and a half of the home, and I just want to enjoy a little anonimity without worrying about her or some representative of hers, showing up at the door.
To boot, it's a friends cottage and I don't feel great about giving out their contact information to someone who i honestly don't trust with it.
And no, there is nothing in our divorce order that states, i have to provide it in this instance. Common sense would say that we would do so, but common sense has too often given way to undermining time with my daughters...
Thoughts
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