We had our OCL Disclosure Meeting beginning of March. It was agreed in the meeting that Ex's lawyer was going to prepare the Minutes of Settlement based on the recommendations of the OCL.
OCL recommended that I get sole custody, however to dialogue with ex but final decision making to me.
Ex - to still be on supervised visit but times to be expanded to 4 hours weekly instead of the 2 hours every other week.
and a few other things.
Ex's lawyer was going to do a draft, and the OCL said they was going to look it over and would indicate where the OCL'srecommendations were and then we would sign the Minutes of Settlement.
The OCL also told me that I was not to contact her after the OCL Disclosure meeting (I'm not sure why, but I am thinking it was because she's made her recommendations) and all we needed to get was the Minutes of SEttlement signed.
It is now almost one month, and I have not heard from my ex's lawyer. I sent her a letter stating that I was to get a reply by end of today.
QUESTION: There has been no reply (as usual), so what is my next step ?
Do I contact the OCL by letter advising that I have not received the draft Minutes of Settlement from the ex's laywer, and write in that letter the recommendations she made, and send that as the draft for the other side to sign ?
The OCL mentioned that she would like us do the M of S rather than having to write a "whole report that was not going to do anyone any good" and that it would take a lot of time.
Anyone been in this situation before ?
It is highly unlikely that ex's lawyer will reply to my letter. they have never responded to anything I've requested.
OCL recommended that I get sole custody, however to dialogue with ex but final decision making to me.
Ex - to still be on supervised visit but times to be expanded to 4 hours weekly instead of the 2 hours every other week.
and a few other things.
Ex's lawyer was going to do a draft, and the OCL said they was going to look it over and would indicate where the OCL'srecommendations were and then we would sign the Minutes of Settlement.
The OCL also told me that I was not to contact her after the OCL Disclosure meeting (I'm not sure why, but I am thinking it was because she's made her recommendations) and all we needed to get was the Minutes of SEttlement signed.
It is now almost one month, and I have not heard from my ex's lawyer. I sent her a letter stating that I was to get a reply by end of today.
QUESTION: There has been no reply (as usual), so what is my next step ?
Do I contact the OCL by letter advising that I have not received the draft Minutes of Settlement from the ex's laywer, and write in that letter the recommendations she made, and send that as the draft for the other side to sign ?
The OCL mentioned that she would like us do the M of S rather than having to write a "whole report that was not going to do anyone any good" and that it would take a lot of time.
Anyone been in this situation before ?
It is highly unlikely that ex's lawyer will reply to my letter. they have never responded to anything I've requested.
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