So my ex informed me this morning that her and the bf are buying a house an hour West of where they are currently living and are once again uprooting my son from his school.
In September 2012 she moved from her house with her previous bf to her parents about 30 minutes away from my son's school and closer to where I was living. I drove him to his school in the old neighborhood when he was with me and that move didn't affect my access.
In December she moved in with the new boyfriend about 45 minutes away from where I am and this time my son changed schools. The access changed drastically when she moved and instead of having him about 12-15 days a month I went down to 4-5.
Well now they are buying a house and are moving even further away. This won't directly impact my access in terms of numbers of days but I'm concerned about her uprooting my son again. He doesn't adjust well to change and all this moving around and having to get adjusted again is hard on a kid.
Before I fire off a reply out of anger do I have any way to stop this or do I need to just smile and wish them good luck with the move? They have put an offer in on a house so it sounds like its going to be happening fairly fast. I'm not trying to stop her from moving and being happy I just don't agree with having our son change schools again.
Thanks.
In September 2012 she moved from her house with her previous bf to her parents about 30 minutes away from my son's school and closer to where I was living. I drove him to his school in the old neighborhood when he was with me and that move didn't affect my access.
In December she moved in with the new boyfriend about 45 minutes away from where I am and this time my son changed schools. The access changed drastically when she moved and instead of having him about 12-15 days a month I went down to 4-5.
Well now they are buying a house and are moving even further away. This won't directly impact my access in terms of numbers of days but I'm concerned about her uprooting my son again. He doesn't adjust well to change and all this moving around and having to get adjusted again is hard on a kid.
Before I fire off a reply out of anger do I have any way to stop this or do I need to just smile and wish them good luck with the move? They have put an offer in on a house so it sounds like its going to be happening fairly fast. I'm not trying to stop her from moving and being happy I just don't agree with having our son change schools again.
Thanks.
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