My ex was suppose to have the kids one week in July and one week in August for his summer break with the kids. This year being the odd year was my first choice to chose the weeks. Well ,that didn't work as he never does anything that I ask for. He just makes up his own law...literally.....(visitation, support, you name it) NEVER FOLLOWS HIS SEPARATION AGREEMENT
Now my kids will be going on August 21-30. (again, I accomodated him) I told him that my older one being 17 has a job that she just got at American Eagle. She's been dying for that job to save up for a car.
WHen I told him that He might have to drive her to work a couple of times a week he flipped out....saying that he's not going to drive her and " what does she think that I'm her taxi service" I said you'd drive your son to soccer practice 3 times a week but won't drive our older daughter??
He said for her to stay home by herself and take the bus, I'm not doing anything for her. He's moving August 13th, 45 mins away...his choice..
I can not leave her at my place alone for 10 days just because she has to work....It's not my responsibility is it? It's his. he never wants to have anything to do with her...It's too much work for him to do and drive.
I do it all the time so what is the big deal.
But because it's his 10 days and he can't multitask he won't take care of her.
I just want to know. Is he responsible for her on his time with the kids (his holidays) she is 17.
I can't leave her alone here...I won't be in town...I really need to get away.
Should I leave her here alone...NO...Shouldn't he be responsible for anything to do with her. He has written her off because he thinks she has chosen sides and that is so far from the truth. She is old enough to see the neglect from him towards her and me. Why is he like that...those are all three of his kids...all should be cared for equally....
Does anyone know the law..isn't he responsible for her care?
any feed back please
I want this bull ***t to end
Now my kids will be going on August 21-30. (again, I accomodated him) I told him that my older one being 17 has a job that she just got at American Eagle. She's been dying for that job to save up for a car.
WHen I told him that He might have to drive her to work a couple of times a week he flipped out....saying that he's not going to drive her and " what does she think that I'm her taxi service" I said you'd drive your son to soccer practice 3 times a week but won't drive our older daughter??
He said for her to stay home by herself and take the bus, I'm not doing anything for her. He's moving August 13th, 45 mins away...his choice..
I can not leave her at my place alone for 10 days just because she has to work....It's not my responsibility is it? It's his. he never wants to have anything to do with her...It's too much work for him to do and drive.
I do it all the time so what is the big deal.
But because it's his 10 days and he can't multitask he won't take care of her.
I just want to know. Is he responsible for her on his time with the kids (his holidays) she is 17.
I can't leave her alone here...I won't be in town...I really need to get away.
Should I leave her here alone...NO...Shouldn't he be responsible for anything to do with her. He has written her off because he thinks she has chosen sides and that is so far from the truth. She is old enough to see the neglect from him towards her and me. Why is he like that...those are all three of his kids...all should be cared for equally....
Does anyone know the law..isn't he responsible for her care?
any feed back please
I want this bull ***t to end
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