Hi,
Background:
I left my ex with our child going on 6mths now. I have documentation that it was consented and he was fine with me moving away.
During this time he came to visit twice. He refused to see our child on one occassion. He asked for another visit however at that point he was openly angery and due to schedules there were no friends or family around. I asked that we used a supervised center to which he agreed and we have been using everyother week.
I filed for custody, support and access on the advice of a lawyer and duty counsel. In response to this he filed in his area and stated I removed the child without consent, he did not know of our where abouts, and the return of child to his location.
Up until this point I have been advised I need sole custody and supervised access. I'm ok with access supervised by other family members or me with others around. I'm also open to the possibility of unsupervised access when the child is older and the ex showing he can properly care for the child.
In the court papers he has admited to violence in the home, in front of the child. (He left out the part of threating to kill me.) There has also been incidents of the child being hurt and left unattended in his care.
He has no parenting skills (I'm not saying this to be mean, he honestly doesn't. While together I was very encouraging and helpful but he had no interest). He easily looses paitence and becomes frustrated with the child. This has been witnessed by others.
I was able to retain a lawyer, however it wasn't the orginal one I spoke with. At this point the issue of return of child to the ex's area is not an issue. However my lawyer wants me to set up access with overnights unsupervised starting now with the issues of custody and support being dealt with at a later time. I don't feel this is in the best interest of the child and is against what I've been advised of up to this point.
My question:
If I take this to court would a judge rule unsupervised access and/or the possiblity of over night access? The child is coming up on 1yr.
Background:
I left my ex with our child going on 6mths now. I have documentation that it was consented and he was fine with me moving away.
During this time he came to visit twice. He refused to see our child on one occassion. He asked for another visit however at that point he was openly angery and due to schedules there were no friends or family around. I asked that we used a supervised center to which he agreed and we have been using everyother week.
I filed for custody, support and access on the advice of a lawyer and duty counsel. In response to this he filed in his area and stated I removed the child without consent, he did not know of our where abouts, and the return of child to his location.
Up until this point I have been advised I need sole custody and supervised access. I'm ok with access supervised by other family members or me with others around. I'm also open to the possibility of unsupervised access when the child is older and the ex showing he can properly care for the child.
In the court papers he has admited to violence in the home, in front of the child. (He left out the part of threating to kill me.) There has also been incidents of the child being hurt and left unattended in his care.
He has no parenting skills (I'm not saying this to be mean, he honestly doesn't. While together I was very encouraging and helpful but he had no interest). He easily looses paitence and becomes frustrated with the child. This has been witnessed by others.
I was able to retain a lawyer, however it wasn't the orginal one I spoke with. At this point the issue of return of child to the ex's area is not an issue. However my lawyer wants me to set up access with overnights unsupervised starting now with the issues of custody and support being dealt with at a later time. I don't feel this is in the best interest of the child and is against what I've been advised of up to this point.
My question:
If I take this to court would a judge rule unsupervised access and/or the possiblity of over night access? The child is coming up on 1yr.
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