Hello All,
The first two paragraphs of this are just backgrounder information so you understand the picture and what I am getting at. if you want to get straight to the point just read the last paragraph.
I am having serious problems with my "daughters mother" with respect to access to my infant daughter. She is unfortunately holding it against me and refusing me access to my daughter because I filed for custody of her as I don't see her as being a fit parent.
Anyway I haven't seen my daughter in nearly 6 weeks and after discussing things with my lawyer I have voluntarily started paying child support as of this month. Because of her pathetic record for cashing cheques (I had given her two cheques different times before and she sat on them for about 6-8 weeks before cashing them after constantly complaining about money) I refuse to give her a cheque and it is too expensive to constantly give her a certified cheque or money order.
I decided as I bank with TD and her with RBC that I would pay by an INTERAC email money transfer which I have paid her on two separate occaisions before and she has accepted. She has now sent me a text message saying she can't receive the payment and that she wants me to pay by cheque through her lawyer which I have refused as I have already sent the email transfer. Will the courts uphold this form of payment as I have solid proof that it has been sent to her or will I be forced to send her a cheque/money order?
Any help is greatly appreciated.
Regards,
Stemmy!
The first two paragraphs of this are just backgrounder information so you understand the picture and what I am getting at. if you want to get straight to the point just read the last paragraph.
I am having serious problems with my "daughters mother" with respect to access to my infant daughter. She is unfortunately holding it against me and refusing me access to my daughter because I filed for custody of her as I don't see her as being a fit parent.
Anyway I haven't seen my daughter in nearly 6 weeks and after discussing things with my lawyer I have voluntarily started paying child support as of this month. Because of her pathetic record for cashing cheques (I had given her two cheques different times before and she sat on them for about 6-8 weeks before cashing them after constantly complaining about money) I refuse to give her a cheque and it is too expensive to constantly give her a certified cheque or money order.
I decided as I bank with TD and her with RBC that I would pay by an INTERAC email money transfer which I have paid her on two separate occaisions before and she has accepted. She has now sent me a text message saying she can't receive the payment and that she wants me to pay by cheque through her lawyer which I have refused as I have already sent the email transfer. Will the courts uphold this form of payment as I have solid proof that it has been sent to her or will I be forced to send her a cheque/money order?
Any help is greatly appreciated.
Regards,
Stemmy!
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