If there is a clause that is unfair to one parent does it look bad to a judge if you are still following that clause?
We have a clause in the order that if mom takes the child for her recital she has her for the duration of the recital, I pick her up following the recital and I then have make up for the entire following weekend that is not my normal full weekend. It does not say equal time, or anything about hours. It states entire weekend as make up.
That means that mom has her for 4 hours on my weekend and I have her Saturday-monday. (I already have her friday and saturday morning as I have every friday overnight as part of order)
Mom is upset at the agreement that we worked out for make up for an upcoming recital. I then informed her that if that is the case and we can not come to an agreement then we will follow the order as its written. She is now saying that she doesn't have to follow that clause because its not equal and fair make up time.
This is an order not a written agreement. It was signed on consent but was then put into an order by a judge.
We have a clause in the order that if mom takes the child for her recital she has her for the duration of the recital, I pick her up following the recital and I then have make up for the entire following weekend that is not my normal full weekend. It does not say equal time, or anything about hours. It states entire weekend as make up.
That means that mom has her for 4 hours on my weekend and I have her Saturday-monday. (I already have her friday and saturday morning as I have every friday overnight as part of order)
Mom is upset at the agreement that we worked out for make up for an upcoming recital. I then informed her that if that is the case and we can not come to an agreement then we will follow the order as its written. She is now saying that she doesn't have to follow that clause because its not equal and fair make up time.
This is an order not a written agreement. It was signed on consent but was then put into an order by a judge.
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