Ugggg- when will it ever end, a rant.
Been separated for 2 years, and ex has fought with me about everything! I mean everything... Custody, overnight access, transportation, me going to doctors appointments, etc etc, oh and money!
She was able to "give in" to "giving me" joint custody, EOW, and other normal things that a caring parent should be able to enjoy.
I (we) sold the house, paid the marital debts and $2,000 was left over to split... she wanted the $2000 - i suggested 1k each, or a 2k resp for son. the 2k sits in trust...
it seems like all of the issues but transportation, and money (alimony) have been solved.
After my lawyer suggested to impute $30,000 a year to her, (my income IS $125,000) she has decided that she wants to go back to school, part time, for some classes, but doesn't know when, where or why......she is currently working at a part time job for her mother, she works more hours or less hours depending on ex's wants. makes $17 an hour, about 20 hours a week. I know this school plan is BS, and would never stay together for very long - the last time she went to college she got all F's, after giving up in the second term.
only reason she cant work full time, is she doesn't want to. Son is in after school program, school is 3 minute drive from apartment, etc etc. She always dreamed of being a stay at home mom... i know, why the hell did i marry that?
i remember when we were married she loved to play games, and always wanted to take the easy road out. ie worked a week and quit because didn't get a full 30 minute lunch break, quit another job for 10 cents an hour more.... always delivers the news with a smirk...
I cant decide if she is stupid, or just loves to fight?!? Any advice on how to handle her on an individual level?
If we didn't have a child together, id change my number and that would be it....
Been separated for 2 years, and ex has fought with me about everything! I mean everything... Custody, overnight access, transportation, me going to doctors appointments, etc etc, oh and money!
She was able to "give in" to "giving me" joint custody, EOW, and other normal things that a caring parent should be able to enjoy.
I (we) sold the house, paid the marital debts and $2,000 was left over to split... she wanted the $2000 - i suggested 1k each, or a 2k resp for son. the 2k sits in trust...
it seems like all of the issues but transportation, and money (alimony) have been solved.
After my lawyer suggested to impute $30,000 a year to her, (my income IS $125,000) she has decided that she wants to go back to school, part time, for some classes, but doesn't know when, where or why......she is currently working at a part time job for her mother, she works more hours or less hours depending on ex's wants. makes $17 an hour, about 20 hours a week. I know this school plan is BS, and would never stay together for very long - the last time she went to college she got all F's, after giving up in the second term.
only reason she cant work full time, is she doesn't want to. Son is in after school program, school is 3 minute drive from apartment, etc etc. She always dreamed of being a stay at home mom... i know, why the hell did i marry that?
i remember when we were married she loved to play games, and always wanted to take the easy road out. ie worked a week and quit because didn't get a full 30 minute lunch break, quit another job for 10 cents an hour more.... always delivers the news with a smirk...
I cant decide if she is stupid, or just loves to fight?!? Any advice on how to handle her on an individual level?
If we didn't have a child together, id change my number and that would be it....
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