I am so mad right now, I just want to scream.
For almost two years I have been trying to just get a divorce.
For two years I have been having this ongoing battle with the soon to be ex.
When I finally think that maybe, just maybe we can work this out and just stop arguing over everything, and just let it end.... the ex or his lawyer throw another curve ball.
I will be going thru my SECOND Settlement Conference in about a month. I thought I there was only ONE of these things.
A week after I got notice that there was going to be a SECOND Settlement Conference... The soon to be ex throws us a curve ball and says that he NEEDS a pre-trial examination (Of just me)
Which was fine. I knew that it had to do mainly with the financial aspect of our marriage, and the money I took out of an account to start my life again in an apartment with my three kids (staying in the family home was just not safe anymore.
I was prepared for this pre-trial thing. I went over my work. MAde sure that I had every single receipt etc....
I knew exactly where I spent the money at etc...
And at 9 am in the morning, my soon to be ex husbands faxes my lawyer and cancels the pre-trial examination.
I know I should be glad that I don't have to go thru it.
But I am so mad at the same time.
I had myself worked up over this.
I was so prepared and quite honestly.
I was ready to make that lawyer look like an ass.
I wanted to see his face when I expalined where the money went. Showed him where it went. Proved to him that his "client" is nothing more than a lying _________.
And I didn't get that chance.
I am so sorry, I just needed to vent.
My lawyer explained tome, that he probably won't reschedule another one.
But it still the whole thing just pisses me right off.
For almost two years I have been trying to just get a divorce.
For two years I have been having this ongoing battle with the soon to be ex.
When I finally think that maybe, just maybe we can work this out and just stop arguing over everything, and just let it end.... the ex or his lawyer throw another curve ball.
I will be going thru my SECOND Settlement Conference in about a month. I thought I there was only ONE of these things.
A week after I got notice that there was going to be a SECOND Settlement Conference... The soon to be ex throws us a curve ball and says that he NEEDS a pre-trial examination (Of just me)
Which was fine. I knew that it had to do mainly with the financial aspect of our marriage, and the money I took out of an account to start my life again in an apartment with my three kids (staying in the family home was just not safe anymore.
I was prepared for this pre-trial thing. I went over my work. MAde sure that I had every single receipt etc....
I knew exactly where I spent the money at etc...
And at 9 am in the morning, my soon to be ex husbands faxes my lawyer and cancels the pre-trial examination.
I know I should be glad that I don't have to go thru it.
But I am so mad at the same time.
I had myself worked up over this.
I was so prepared and quite honestly.
I was ready to make that lawyer look like an ass.
I wanted to see his face when I expalined where the money went. Showed him where it went. Proved to him that his "client" is nothing more than a lying _________.
And I didn't get that chance.
I am so sorry, I just needed to vent.
My lawyer explained tome, that he probably won't reschedule another one.
But it still the whole thing just pisses me right off.
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