Hi Everyone,
Short story...
I wish I had found this site before she was able to claim status quo custody. Looking back, I now realize that she had used every stalling tactic in the book until she was able to 'claim' status quo custody of our toddler.
I'm still stunned at how people can get away with bogus claims of domestic violence. Only after she had obtained status quo custody of our toddler did she back down from her claims of violence. Instead, she simply stated that she had meant 'psychological violence and not physical violence' WTF !!?!
...all that said .... it's been a frustrating, uphill battle ever since she left with our toddler... the first Case Conference coming up next week...
Cheers Everyone,
James
Short story...
- One morning last summer, I told my partner that I called a lawyer regarding our deteriorating relationship -- she immediately started shouting that "there is too much violence in the house." (there's never been violence of any kind in our household)
- I left for work later that morning dumbfounded about her claims.
- I found out that she had called the Police after I left for work. She had made a claim of "domestic violence." She moved most of hers and the toddler's items out of the house, while I was at work, that same day.
- Children's Aid got involved automatically because she made a domestic violence claim to the Police.
- She initially refused to let me see my child. In the court documents, she claimed that I had 'ADHD' and according to her that meant that I could not be a good father. (I don't have ADHD btw)
- She suffers from both an anxiety disorder and a major depressive disorder. She lied to the court about not having any mental disorders. However, she left plenty of her prescriptions and psychotherapy documents behind that prove otherwise.
I wish I had found this site before she was able to claim status quo custody. Looking back, I now realize that she had used every stalling tactic in the book until she was able to 'claim' status quo custody of our toddler.
I'm still stunned at how people can get away with bogus claims of domestic violence. Only after she had obtained status quo custody of our toddler did she back down from her claims of violence. Instead, she simply stated that she had meant 'psychological violence and not physical violence' WTF !!?!
...all that said .... it's been a frustrating, uphill battle ever since she left with our toddler... the first Case Conference coming up next week...
Cheers Everyone,
James
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