Well had a Case Conference this week, and still have limited results of course! I did get Spousal support taken off her list of "musts" but she still is not willing to do any transportation!
So some back ground, I moved 85kms away right at separation (August) and STBX sold the matrimonial home and moved in February to make the full one way commute now 175kms away.
So in our CC the judge indicated that generally transportation is assessed on a couple things, one being "who caused the separation" but that is a tough one to prove. So next they would look at who caused the distance, which from my stand point my STBX did, but again looking for input here and thirdly they say that the easiest and most common is that the parent undertaking the kids for access is responsible. So this one is a true stumbling block for me? I take this as I pick the kids up for my weekend access and my STBX picks them up for her access through the week, but apparently my STBX and her lawyer think that I should be picking them up and dropping them off for the access!
So some back ground, I moved 85kms away right at separation (August) and STBX sold the matrimonial home and moved in February to make the full one way commute now 175kms away.
So in our CC the judge indicated that generally transportation is assessed on a couple things, one being "who caused the separation" but that is a tough one to prove. So next they would look at who caused the distance, which from my stand point my STBX did, but again looking for input here and thirdly they say that the easiest and most common is that the parent undertaking the kids for access is responsible. So this one is a true stumbling block for me? I take this as I pick the kids up for my weekend access and my STBX picks them up for her access through the week, but apparently my STBX and her lawyer think that I should be picking them up and dropping them off for the access!
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