I just registered with MEP as the debtor. I have never faltered on support...this is strictly to minimize contact with my ex as she is high conflict. I was advised to do so by my lawyer.
My question is once she is notified that I registered with MEP can she simply tell them I am in arrears by swearing the affidavit of arrears? And would they immediately put arrears on me without being able to prove my payments made?
I never filled out the affidavit of arrears in my package because it says to do so only if I am in arrears and there isn’t any. For the last 3 years I have even paid more than what the order states, which simply says $xxxx/mo until further order of this court...it doesn’t say to adjust it yearly.
I have made the payments by going into the bank each time support is due and transferring the money from my account to hers...the teller always asks to confirm who the account holder is and they confirm that it is hers before they process the transfer. Would these transfers be proof enough with MEP? A bit worried now i will be starting off with MEP on the wrong foot if she lies and says I am in arrears.
If she does lie what do I do? I foresee this happening so I am wanting to prepare in advance.
My question is once she is notified that I registered with MEP can she simply tell them I am in arrears by swearing the affidavit of arrears? And would they immediately put arrears on me without being able to prove my payments made?
I never filled out the affidavit of arrears in my package because it says to do so only if I am in arrears and there isn’t any. For the last 3 years I have even paid more than what the order states, which simply says $xxxx/mo until further order of this court...it doesn’t say to adjust it yearly.
I have made the payments by going into the bank each time support is due and transferring the money from my account to hers...the teller always asks to confirm who the account holder is and they confirm that it is hers before they process the transfer. Would these transfers be proof enough with MEP? A bit worried now i will be starting off with MEP on the wrong foot if she lies and says I am in arrears.
If she does lie what do I do? I foresee this happening so I am wanting to prepare in advance.
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