The STBX has informed her lawyer that Feb 2015 is the separation date. STBX has been (and continues) not to be involved in the kids day to day life. Cooking groceries and laundry. If they are lucky 1 hour a day. Separation agreement is being drafted on basis that for the fore sable future all will reside in the same matrimonial home. (till one decides to remarry)
Lately STBX stays outside longer, 2 weekends in a row spending 1 hour with kids and the weekdays 40 minutes per day.
My goal is if the matrimonial gets sold, I buy a place she buys a place and primary residence goes for me (as I am the parent who is doing the driving the morning time, bedtime routine, weekends, recreational activities..etc). Shared custody still valid. I have been told by the STBX that she will not drive the to any activities and she will just keep them at home plus the driving to home daycare/school. I would be responsible for.
I started writting a daily log based on advices. I started that once the STBX considered that we are separated.
To my knowledge the court doesn't have time to read a log of daily activities.
So when does the satutues quo start? And if the court doesn't have the time to review the log, how do they decide on the status quo?
Thanks
Lately STBX stays outside longer, 2 weekends in a row spending 1 hour with kids and the weekdays 40 minutes per day.
My goal is if the matrimonial gets sold, I buy a place she buys a place and primary residence goes for me (as I am the parent who is doing the driving the morning time, bedtime routine, weekends, recreational activities..etc). Shared custody still valid. I have been told by the STBX that she will not drive the to any activities and she will just keep them at home plus the driving to home daycare/school. I would be responsible for.
I started writting a daily log based on advices. I started that once the STBX considered that we are separated.
To my knowledge the court doesn't have time to read a log of daily activities.
So when does the satutues quo start? And if the court doesn't have the time to review the log, how do they decide on the status quo?
Thanks
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