Hi, Arabian:
As of this afternoon, the Court here has absolutely no record of her appealing anything. However, that doesn't mean I'm out of the woods. She 'says' she has a lawyer here locally, but if so again, nothing has been filed yet. As you say, it's quite possible she's just bullshit*ing me and working me up. She even had to nerve to 'serve' papers on me last Thursday (which were refused by the Court), plus the fact that a party in a case cannot personally serve papers on the other party. Seems she is playing a mind-game, but it certainly has caused a lot of anxiety and stress. A reasonable person must question how can such a tactic even be legal??? She deliberately mislead and misrepresented the 'serving' of an official court document. Unfortunately, I'm not (like a lot of people) very well versed in all the paperwork required these days. Just wanted to 'update' you a bit. Today I feel a bit relieved, but no doubt, that will be short lived. My divorce has been granted but the application I made was for a Simple Divorce only (not dealing with any property, equalization, or SS issues). I can only 'dream and wish' like so many on this site, that the EX will just fade off into the background. She is totally like Fatal Attraction --- 'you will love me, OR ELSE..."
As of this afternoon, the Court here has absolutely no record of her appealing anything. However, that doesn't mean I'm out of the woods. She 'says' she has a lawyer here locally, but if so again, nothing has been filed yet. As you say, it's quite possible she's just bullshit*ing me and working me up. She even had to nerve to 'serve' papers on me last Thursday (which were refused by the Court), plus the fact that a party in a case cannot personally serve papers on the other party. Seems she is playing a mind-game, but it certainly has caused a lot of anxiety and stress. A reasonable person must question how can such a tactic even be legal??? She deliberately mislead and misrepresented the 'serving' of an official court document. Unfortunately, I'm not (like a lot of people) very well versed in all the paperwork required these days. Just wanted to 'update' you a bit. Today I feel a bit relieved, but no doubt, that will be short lived. My divorce has been granted but the application I made was for a Simple Divorce only (not dealing with any property, equalization, or SS issues). I can only 'dream and wish' like so many on this site, that the EX will just fade off into the background. She is totally like Fatal Attraction --- 'you will love me, OR ELSE..."
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