Propose a schedule that works for the children. Not you and not him.
His schedule is none of your concern. He cannot expect a schedule tailor made to his life. He will have to figure how to handle the children getting to school and back and how daycare services will play into this. Not your problem, even though you would make it so. You can offer to pick up his slack if you want and the .grandparents can certainly offer to help. But ultimately if you settled on any schedule such as 223 or a week on off schedule that is it. Parents have to make their lives work around the needs of their children.
The schedule should achieve a stable life for the children and contain appropriate pickup,and drop off times. If at school then drop of for school time and pick up after school. If at daycare then drop off and pickup according to daycare protocols.
I do not speak French and one of my children attending French Immersion with great success.
Looks like for what ever reason your life will have to change and why waste time, money and effort fighting when you could work to make things better for all.
You are should embrace the chance to move on and get things settled.
His schedule is none of your concern. He cannot expect a schedule tailor made to his life. He will have to figure how to handle the children getting to school and back and how daycare services will play into this. Not your problem, even though you would make it so. You can offer to pick up his slack if you want and the .grandparents can certainly offer to help. But ultimately if you settled on any schedule such as 223 or a week on off schedule that is it. Parents have to make their lives work around the needs of their children.
The schedule should achieve a stable life for the children and contain appropriate pickup,and drop off times. If at school then drop of for school time and pick up after school. If at daycare then drop off and pickup according to daycare protocols.
I do not speak French and one of my children attending French Immersion with great success.
Looks like for what ever reason your life will have to change and why waste time, money and effort fighting when you could work to make things better for all.
You are should embrace the chance to move on and get things settled.
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