Here's the condensed version, married with no kids. She left in early February into another mans house. Insisted on paying the phone and hydro for three months and thats it. Her name is on the deed and mortgage and I've been left to pay all the bills. She has left half her personal stuff in the house and not taken any divided contents.
Now, early on she sent me a couple of separation proposals that has her asking for a lot with zero financial disclosure on her part, shes a credit hound and ran everything up in her name. 62k.
I refused the proposal without disclosure. Now, she's refusing to do a financial statement or to get the house assessed for me to hopefully buy her out if there's any equity at all, under big renovations when she left. I've changed the locks because of her harrassing behavior, police involve, she even barged into the house and asked for a key and the she was moving back in, police involved by her. They talked her down. She found out I was having a friend over, thats why she was there.
Questions,
1 - is she responsible for any bills?
2 - Is this abandonment of the home?
3 - How do I get her stuff out of the house?
4 - Whats the best way to get her motivated towards a separation agreement?
5 - If she refuses to do a financial statement, do I propose one with what I think her marital debt is?
6 - She thinks everything I own is a marital asset, I believe it's just whats been acquired during the marraige. If its not a marital asset, does it have to be listed on the financial statement?
I know, a lot of questions but they should probably help a few people. Thanks in advance.
Now, early on she sent me a couple of separation proposals that has her asking for a lot with zero financial disclosure on her part, shes a credit hound and ran everything up in her name. 62k.
I refused the proposal without disclosure. Now, she's refusing to do a financial statement or to get the house assessed for me to hopefully buy her out if there's any equity at all, under big renovations when she left. I've changed the locks because of her harrassing behavior, police involve, she even barged into the house and asked for a key and the she was moving back in, police involved by her. They talked her down. She found out I was having a friend over, thats why she was there.
Questions,
1 - is she responsible for any bills?
2 - Is this abandonment of the home?
3 - How do I get her stuff out of the house?
4 - Whats the best way to get her motivated towards a separation agreement?
5 - If she refuses to do a financial statement, do I propose one with what I think her marital debt is?
6 - She thinks everything I own is a marital asset, I believe it's just whats been acquired during the marraige. If its not a marital asset, does it have to be listed on the financial statement?
I know, a lot of questions but they should probably help a few people. Thanks in advance.
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