Hi, I hope someone can help me. I understand during the time of divorce, custody and financial issues sometimes get in the way of keeping what is in the best interest of the child and their safety can be overlooked.
When you have a concern as a parent and are in this process, why do you have to think about how the courts will look at it instead of being able to address your concern with the other parent?
If the other is claiming that we should work together then these matters should be something we can talk to each other about and instead of making matters worse, try to do the best to show that we are taking measures to ensure the safety and health of our children.
I think as parents if we do have a concern should be able to address.
For example if you know your ex has a history of drinking and driving, should you not at least be able to talk to them about it and show your concern? Or just wait till you reach court and address it then? And how does the court see this? As they say maybe mud slinging?
As a parent turning a blind eye to things like that because it might be used against you is just nuts.
When you have a concern as a parent and are in this process, why do you have to think about how the courts will look at it instead of being able to address your concern with the other parent?
If the other is claiming that we should work together then these matters should be something we can talk to each other about and instead of making matters worse, try to do the best to show that we are taking measures to ensure the safety and health of our children.
I think as parents if we do have a concern should be able to address.
For example if you know your ex has a history of drinking and driving, should you not at least be able to talk to them about it and show your concern? Or just wait till you reach court and address it then? And how does the court see this? As they say maybe mud slinging?
As a parent turning a blind eye to things like that because it might be used against you is just nuts.
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