Good morning,
Based on your story here, your username is very fitting.
1. Unfortunately, many a men have found themselves in this situation / unilateral decision by the other spouse. I mean what are you going to do at this point, force the person to go to work?
It's a nasty / deceiving move on the part of the partner that pulls this stunt.
2. Yes, it's a game of tag and the Govt is tagging you as the payor. You almost want to think this person had a hidden agenda all along as to what they will do when the kid/s came along.
3. To some people, either of those options might be more viable That way the other person gets to get off their @$$ and get a job.
4. ...not just that, she might even find another smug who is unaware of her past, and take him for a ride too.
5. Private welfare sounds about right. It does need to change, and make all the lazy / advantage takers realize that as an adult, you shouldn't expect another adult to look after you.
final note....Do NOT get married, or let sex cloud your judgement.
Based on your story here, your username is very fitting.
1. Unfortunately, many a men have found themselves in this situation / unilateral decision by the other spouse. I mean what are you going to do at this point, force the person to go to work?
It's a nasty / deceiving move on the part of the partner that pulls this stunt.
2. Yes, it's a game of tag and the Govt is tagging you as the payor. You almost want to think this person had a hidden agenda all along as to what they will do when the kid/s came along.
3. To some people, either of those options might be more viable That way the other person gets to get off their @$$ and get a job.
4. ...not just that, she might even find another smug who is unaware of her past, and take him for a ride too.
5. Private welfare sounds about right. It does need to change, and make all the lazy / advantage takers realize that as an adult, you shouldn't expect another adult to look after you.
final note....Do NOT get married, or let sex cloud your judgement.
Originally posted by ifonlyihadknown
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