My ex and I have a settlement conference scheduled for next week. To date we have a signed order from a judge giving us 50/50 access and joint custody. She makes 52K and I make 77K. I have been paying her the offset CS to date.
For the settlement conference the plan is supposed to be the final equalization of assets, mainly my pension. However, my ex is again putting in her brief that I am a terrible parent, a drunk, a child abuser, etc etc and she is continuing to seek sole custody and supervised access to me. Obviously she is dreaming.
She is also arguing for SS and increased CS.
I know the judge cannot make a ruling at a settlement conference but do you think I can expect him to ignore all her BS as it was already court ordered back in August?
My other concern is that when the judge made his order he specified a Sunday exchange at 4pm instead of the Friday exchange I had requested. Now I am in the unenviable position of having to see her face to face every Sunday. No matter who's house the exchange takes place at, she comes out and causes a scene. I stay in my car now and record everything because she has a history of using police as a weapon, BUT, it's frigging embarrassing!!! She has yelled that I am an abuser and adulterer in front of her neighbors and mine....among other things.
If I send her an email stating that I will only exchange the kids down the road instead of in front of my house, will a judge see that as a poor move on my part?
Sorry for all the questions but she is EXTREMELY difficult to deal with. I ignore her as much as a can but even when I stay in my car, she comes right up to the window to give me her 2 cents.
Thanks
For the settlement conference the plan is supposed to be the final equalization of assets, mainly my pension. However, my ex is again putting in her brief that I am a terrible parent, a drunk, a child abuser, etc etc and she is continuing to seek sole custody and supervised access to me. Obviously she is dreaming.
She is also arguing for SS and increased CS.
I know the judge cannot make a ruling at a settlement conference but do you think I can expect him to ignore all her BS as it was already court ordered back in August?
My other concern is that when the judge made his order he specified a Sunday exchange at 4pm instead of the Friday exchange I had requested. Now I am in the unenviable position of having to see her face to face every Sunday. No matter who's house the exchange takes place at, she comes out and causes a scene. I stay in my car now and record everything because she has a history of using police as a weapon, BUT, it's frigging embarrassing!!! She has yelled that I am an abuser and adulterer in front of her neighbors and mine....among other things.
If I send her an email stating that I will only exchange the kids down the road instead of in front of my house, will a judge see that as a poor move on my part?
Sorry for all the questions but she is EXTREMELY difficult to deal with. I ignore her as much as a can but even when I stay in my car, she comes right up to the window to give me her 2 cents.
Thanks
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