Our separation agreement states (she still has not signed it yet btw)
STBX went sending a bunch of text messages in response to an email I sent her regarding our summer schedule and how she totally disagreed with it even though it follows what's in the agreement.
I simply told her to respond to the email and she said no text is fine. I then sent her one last text stating that I would no longer respond to text messages only email. Then I sent the following message after each text message she has sent me since.
She then sent the following email
I was in a meeting when "the kids" called so I called them back to say goodnight. Stbx took the opportunity to lay into me about everything in the email then tells me the kids are sleeping and I can't talk to them. (This is the reason I don't call btw)
Today the school called and said our daughter needed to be picked up. I called her on the phone and relayed the message. She then took her to the doctors this afternoon. It turns out she has an ear infection. She sent me a very long text about it and once again I sent the same undeliverable message.
When she got home she called me and explained the situation and went on to say how complicated this was and blah blah blah.... She now claims she is not going to sign the agreement and she is going to block my emails. I told her I didn't care what she did. She then started to swear at me and I hung up.
{Deep Breath}
I'm trying to get her to email only...not having much luck.
The agreement was signed by me and my lawyer and sent to her lawyer after all the revisions her lawyer asked for.
Everything is a battle and even with a written agreement the next 17 years will be interesting.
FB
3.21 It is acknowledged and agreed that where reference is made in this Agreement to “in writing”, that text messages do not qualify.
I simply told her to respond to the email and she said no text is fine. I then sent her one last text stating that I would no longer respond to text messages only email. Then I sent the following message after each text message she has sent me since.
Undeliverable: Phone number 416-XXX-XXXX has blocked SMS messages from phone number 416-XXX-XXXX
Subject: Games
I don't know what kinda games ur playing XXXX u really need to grow up. U talk about doing things in a mature manner and then u block me from texting u and ur not answering ur phone. Ur children wanted to say goodnight they wonder why u never call them to say goodnight. I'm done communicating with you via email. I don't always have internet access I told u that in front of the lawyers. You really need to grow up! The only ones your hurting is the children.
Sent from my iPhone
I don't know what kinda games ur playing XXXX u really need to grow up. U talk about doing things in a mature manner and then u block me from texting u and ur not answering ur phone. Ur children wanted to say goodnight they wonder why u never call them to say goodnight. I'm done communicating with you via email. I don't always have internet access I told u that in front of the lawyers. You really need to grow up! The only ones your hurting is the children.
Sent from my iPhone
Today the school called and said our daughter needed to be picked up. I called her on the phone and relayed the message. She then took her to the doctors this afternoon. It turns out she has an ear infection. She sent me a very long text about it and once again I sent the same undeliverable message.
When she got home she called me and explained the situation and went on to say how complicated this was and blah blah blah.... She now claims she is not going to sign the agreement and she is going to block my emails. I told her I didn't care what she did. She then started to swear at me and I hung up.
{Deep Breath}
I'm trying to get her to email only...not having much luck.
The agreement was signed by me and my lawyer and sent to her lawyer after all the revisions her lawyer asked for.
Everything is a battle and even with a written agreement the next 17 years will be interesting.
FB
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