Anyone else have the (mis) fortune of having to attend one of these new information sessions? I did today.
I filed a Motion to Change a Final Order and was told that I had to attend one of these prior to my first appearance, which is tomorrow.
First off, excellent idea on behalf of the Ministry. Secondly, extremely bad idea to implement this program as mandatory for EVERYONE (but everyone doesn't really mean everyone...my husband was served by his ex only a month prior and they didn't have to attend - at his first appearance clerk found that odd, but still no notice to attend). I digress....
I'm in Year 9 of separation, Year 8 of various legal issues (can't find an agreement that he likes enough to follow, not just sign) and already have a Final Order filed with the court.
The information session was about the effects of separation on adults, children and a whole lot of information about the almighty benefits of mediation offered by the court mediation team (Axis).
While I agree mediation is an excellent way to resolve issues, but, am I not the only one who exhausted these methods prior to filing motions? I mean, if we were able to negotiate and settle issues outside of the legal forum, wouldn't they have been accomplished by now?
There was absolutely no information provided that wouldn't be found on the internet somewhere, any family law site, any family law office, the courthouse, etc, etc.
They didn't answer specific questions and the overwhelmingly heard message was "get a lawyer". If you're dealing with support for adult children - get a lawyer, if you're dealing with spousal support - get a lawyer, so on and so on.
At the end, I'm not sure what the purpose was for the Ministry?? Is the goal to better prepare self-represented people for the court process? Because if it was, there wasn't any real information provided in that area. Was it to encourage people to spend their life savings on lawyers (I already did that, now I have to self-rep)? I'm a little confused on the whole reason I had to endure that today?
The two hour MANDATORY session turned out to be 2.5 hours. When I add the parking costs, the travel costs, the lost wages for 4 hours of work - I could have had a full hour consultation with a really good lawyer that concentrated on MY SPECIFICS, not terms so generalized they only seem to apply to the Cleavers of Divorce Court. Should I not be able to afford that - unpaid time off work, parking, etc for this MIP (remember, I have to be back there for undefined time tomorrow for first appearance).... is this not making the whole "system" even more prohibitive to the average person?
I dunno, it felt like another "hoop".....
I filed a Motion to Change a Final Order and was told that I had to attend one of these prior to my first appearance, which is tomorrow.
First off, excellent idea on behalf of the Ministry. Secondly, extremely bad idea to implement this program as mandatory for EVERYONE (but everyone doesn't really mean everyone...my husband was served by his ex only a month prior and they didn't have to attend - at his first appearance clerk found that odd, but still no notice to attend). I digress....
I'm in Year 9 of separation, Year 8 of various legal issues (can't find an agreement that he likes enough to follow, not just sign) and already have a Final Order filed with the court.
The information session was about the effects of separation on adults, children and a whole lot of information about the almighty benefits of mediation offered by the court mediation team (Axis).
While I agree mediation is an excellent way to resolve issues, but, am I not the only one who exhausted these methods prior to filing motions? I mean, if we were able to negotiate and settle issues outside of the legal forum, wouldn't they have been accomplished by now?
There was absolutely no information provided that wouldn't be found on the internet somewhere, any family law site, any family law office, the courthouse, etc, etc.
They didn't answer specific questions and the overwhelmingly heard message was "get a lawyer". If you're dealing with support for adult children - get a lawyer, if you're dealing with spousal support - get a lawyer, so on and so on.
At the end, I'm not sure what the purpose was for the Ministry?? Is the goal to better prepare self-represented people for the court process? Because if it was, there wasn't any real information provided in that area. Was it to encourage people to spend their life savings on lawyers (I already did that, now I have to self-rep)? I'm a little confused on the whole reason I had to endure that today?
The two hour MANDATORY session turned out to be 2.5 hours. When I add the parking costs, the travel costs, the lost wages for 4 hours of work - I could have had a full hour consultation with a really good lawyer that concentrated on MY SPECIFICS, not terms so generalized they only seem to apply to the Cleavers of Divorce Court. Should I not be able to afford that - unpaid time off work, parking, etc for this MIP (remember, I have to be back there for undefined time tomorrow for first appearance).... is this not making the whole "system" even more prohibitive to the average person?
I dunno, it felt like another "hoop".....
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