Hi guys,
Just wondering if anyone had some advice or statistics on unmarried fathers and whether or not they are at a disadvantage in recieving shared parenting.
Just a few quick notes, communication is impossible. I basically get no input or say into anything, even trying to work together only results in me getting guilted, blamed and recieving inflammatory statements.
Thankfully all communication is written so Ive saved it and I feel I can easily demonstrate that it simply would not work for us to have a conventional joint custody.
What I want is parallel parenting with a 50/50 time split and probably have to delegate responsibilities in some areas so as to avoid any of these problems, and probably the only real issue that would require a discussion on would be the bills resulting.
I am trying to be incredibly mature about this but it is not easy with this woman, I basically am at a point where it is virtually impossible and senseless to even try to talk to her with all the anger, switching the parenting schedule without an agreement, putting doctors appointments on my time (thankfully this has stopped) and scheduling extra curricular activites on my time recently.
We have been in the process for quite some time now, and it is fairly obvious that she is using stalling tactics.
Thats it in a nutshell, any comments or advice that anyone could share?
Just wondering if anyone had some advice or statistics on unmarried fathers and whether or not they are at a disadvantage in recieving shared parenting.
Just a few quick notes, communication is impossible. I basically get no input or say into anything, even trying to work together only results in me getting guilted, blamed and recieving inflammatory statements.
Thankfully all communication is written so Ive saved it and I feel I can easily demonstrate that it simply would not work for us to have a conventional joint custody.
What I want is parallel parenting with a 50/50 time split and probably have to delegate responsibilities in some areas so as to avoid any of these problems, and probably the only real issue that would require a discussion on would be the bills resulting.
I am trying to be incredibly mature about this but it is not easy with this woman, I basically am at a point where it is virtually impossible and senseless to even try to talk to her with all the anger, switching the parenting schedule without an agreement, putting doctors appointments on my time (thankfully this has stopped) and scheduling extra curricular activites on my time recently.
We have been in the process for quite some time now, and it is fairly obvious that she is using stalling tactics.
Thats it in a nutshell, any comments or advice that anyone could share?
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