Facts.
1- I have sole custody of our Son 6 (autistic).
2- Ex made numerous false allegations and had me charged twice in the past. charges dropped eventually.
3- Ex had ditched our son for about a year and returned end of last year.
4- Ex has every wednesday and every other weekend overnights (final order before she disappared)
5- Since ex returned she has called CAS making all sorts of false allegations, her attempt failed, CAS visited me and son and case was closed.
Problem:
She is now coaching son to call police if dad is "bothering" you and from what he tells me she is actually pressuring him to do so as he has told me this a few times in the last couple of months. couple of days ago when i told him to go wash his hands after dinner i heard him in the washroom saying "i should not have to wash hands, i have to call police now"
I am not sure how to counteract the above situation. I have not confronted her about this but it is causing me great deal of anxiety as i am afraid police will become involved again for no good reason. and its not just the threat of calling police, as many crazy exes do she is poisoning our son against me ("dad is a liar who lies to mom" and telling him "when you will be older you will come live with me" working to set change of custody goal for when he is 12 now?) he already tells me, "i live with mom but i only come to see you" which means her crazy scheme is working.
anyways are there any preventative measures i can take against the emotional abuse and brainwashing my son is going through?
1- I have sole custody of our Son 6 (autistic).
2- Ex made numerous false allegations and had me charged twice in the past. charges dropped eventually.
3- Ex had ditched our son for about a year and returned end of last year.
4- Ex has every wednesday and every other weekend overnights (final order before she disappared)
5- Since ex returned she has called CAS making all sorts of false allegations, her attempt failed, CAS visited me and son and case was closed.
Problem:
She is now coaching son to call police if dad is "bothering" you and from what he tells me she is actually pressuring him to do so as he has told me this a few times in the last couple of months. couple of days ago when i told him to go wash his hands after dinner i heard him in the washroom saying "i should not have to wash hands, i have to call police now"
I am not sure how to counteract the above situation. I have not confronted her about this but it is causing me great deal of anxiety as i am afraid police will become involved again for no good reason. and its not just the threat of calling police, as many crazy exes do she is poisoning our son against me ("dad is a liar who lies to mom" and telling him "when you will be older you will come live with me" working to set change of custody goal for when he is 12 now?) he already tells me, "i live with mom but i only come to see you" which means her crazy scheme is working.
anyways are there any preventative measures i can take against the emotional abuse and brainwashing my son is going through?
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