I recently found out that my ex will fight for full custody in 3 years, when our daughter goes to kindergarten.
Her argument is that a child needs stability, and that would be best if she had full custody, and I would have her every other week-end.
I don't agree with this, and am ready to go week on/week off. I would love to have full custody, but I don't think that's fair.
Is there anything I can do in the next 3 years to strenghten my case?
We have shared custody, where we're both equals. We have 50/50 custody, with me having slightly more time.
I pay all the expenses and deduct it from the monthly child support payment. And, so far, I've been the one attending all her sporting events, and will probably continue to do so. I expect that I'll be volunteer/coach on her sport team.
My parents are our emergency babysittor. If there's anything, they're the first one we call (after each other). She'll call my parents before her parents to babysit for the night or the day.
I've been writing the visitation schedule so far, but plan to stop as soon as we finalize the separation agreement.
Other then just being there for our daughter and being amicable to my ex, is there anything else I could do?
Her argument is that a child needs stability, and that would be best if she had full custody, and I would have her every other week-end.
I don't agree with this, and am ready to go week on/week off. I would love to have full custody, but I don't think that's fair.
Is there anything I can do in the next 3 years to strenghten my case?
We have shared custody, where we're both equals. We have 50/50 custody, with me having slightly more time.
I pay all the expenses and deduct it from the monthly child support payment. And, so far, I've been the one attending all her sporting events, and will probably continue to do so. I expect that I'll be volunteer/coach on her sport team.
My parents are our emergency babysittor. If there's anything, they're the first one we call (after each other). She'll call my parents before her parents to babysit for the night or the day.
I've been writing the visitation schedule so far, but plan to stop as soon as we finalize the separation agreement.
Other then just being there for our daughter and being amicable to my ex, is there anything else I could do?
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