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  • #46
    I'm puzzled at what you regard as favouratism in that case. Birth mother sought full custody, the other parent was essentially an adoptive parent, sought joint and got it. Who was favoured? They were both involved parents, the judge saw this and orderd 50/50 week about, despite the birth mother's argument for sole. It seems an unbiased decision to me.

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    • #47
      We both agreed on joint custody on both children at the very beginning, he consented upon mediation. Until almost 3 years later he decided he wanted sole custody of his biological daughter, and have no more responsibility of his non-biological daughter now 17 (whom he has been in her life since she was 1, and the biological father had never been in her life)

      Even after his court nonsense I still did not seek sole custody. I am still lost though regarding his accusations, about him saying there is no equal parenting, and he just a pay check. He is involved as much as his schedule (or himself) allows him to be.

      I did look up the definition of equal parenting, and shared responsibilities did come up as a part of the definition. Seems his schedule doesn't allow him to be involved in any of these up and coming responsibilities. As for bring there for the children emotionally, the same goes, as his schedule permits it.

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      • #48
        Originally posted by Mess View Post
        I'm puzzled at what you regard as favouratism in that case. Birth mother sought full custody, the other parent was essentially an adoptive parent, sought joint and got it. Who was favoured? They were both involved parents, the judge saw this and orderd 50/50 week about, despite the birth mother's argument for sole. It seems an unbiased decision to me.
        One parent took the children away from the other parent. Despite this not being in the children's best interest, there were no sanctions put to the offending parent. That does not seem right to me.

        If there were some case law whereby a judge spanked a few parents for taking the kids without a plan, I think we would have a better system.

        I do agree for the most part it is very fair.

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        • #49
          Originally posted by FaithandMorals View Post
          One parent took the children away from the other parent. Despite this not being in the children's best interest, there were no sanctions put to the offending parent. That does not seem right to me
          One parent moved out and left the children with the other parent to peruse his own happiness, made his own agreement in regards to access and CS, then it was presented and consented though a mediator.

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          • #50
            Item 28 states where the bio mom decided to take the child.

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            • #51
              What is item 28?

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              • #52
                Originally posted by mts1973 View Post
                What is item 28?

                the CanLii decision we have been talking about.

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                • #53
                  I am sorry, I got lost somewhere.

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                  • #54
                    read the first post and some inbetween
                    mens groups serve a purpose and are playing
                    an important role in reshaping this countrys
                    family law fiasco

                    in calgary 4 years ago i took my children and
                    fled from abusive spouse whole made my children
                    bleed from the mouth there was no where to go,
                    unlike womens shelters in alberta which receive
                    millions$ of dollars and number in the 100's there
                    is only 1 mens group who has fought for years
                    for sponsorship, in 2011 they received about $1000 ...

                    there is also a social aspect to mens groups
                    where information and views are freely shared

                    perhaps sharing stories of what was done to them

                    some will condem them perhaps for fear of what
                    organized fathers and men are capable of in terms
                    of changing this countrys discriminatory and in
                    some cases ludicris laws

                    mens groups are thee best place I know of to get
                    information on lawyers that will lay down and watch
                    a father get the traditional 48 hours every two
                    weeks access to his kids - i learned to late but now
                    spead the word ...


                    i will leave you with a storey as told to me from
                    a man I met at a men's group - he served in afganistan
                    for this nation - thats for "you , me and all our children"
                    , sent his pay check home to loving wife

                    when he returned to canada his wife had been living
                    with a guy and $ all gone, the rcmp threw him off
                    their property ...

                    he had a break down , the wife took him to court for
                    spousal and got it, not satisfied with the amount the wife
                    persued trying to prove that as a machinist he could make
                    more $ - that he had $1000's of dollars of tools in their
                    garage ... so the judge gave her more another $ 15% ,
                    then his wife sold all the tools ...

                    you bet there are p1ssed off men looking for answers at
                    mens groups ...

                    when this shite stops then there will be no need
                    for mens groups ... till then they are here to stay!


                    may not be support for this idea here but women in Canada
                    with sons should embrace any support men can get and also
                    voice their support for same else some day their son will only
                    be seeing his kids a few hours a month ...

                    then again ... my views are partially because I am in Calgary Alberta Canada what i see as the last stronghold of a "mothers only" legal system

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                    • #55
                      Order did not follow by ex and police case register twice

                      Please suggest me Can Judge can injustice if I represent my case myself? my ex has a legal aid lawyer???

                      Guest
                      yahoo messenger(dbaIBM09)

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                      • #56
                        International property comes under matrimonial proerty in Alberta, Canada

                        Hello Folks,
                        Please tell me if I own international (my name) property, than will it divide 50/50 in Alberta Canada? Please give me reply, It would help me a lot.

                        Will rental (Canadian house) income be divide 50/50 in Alberta, Canada?

                        Thanks in advance!
                        YM! dbaIBM09

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                        • #57
                          Originally posted by Guest100 View Post
                          Hello Folks,
                          Please tell me if I own international (my name) property, than will it divide 50/50 in Alberta Canada? Please give me reply, It would help me a lot.

                          Will rental (Canadian house) income be divide 50/50 in Alberta, Canada?

                          Thanks in advance!
                          YM! dbaIBM09
                          you will get your answers if you start your own threads for your questions instead of hijacking another thread.

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                          • #58
                            I Havent all the post in here cause the last thing i read was that the father only had To pay the child support on The table charts. I am a fathers of 4 kids. Seperated and here how my life turned out YouTube untile we have equal parenting most divorce will destroyed the father or mother and mostly the children. Why should a father lose everything cause of what the mothers wants. Some mothers have no clue how evil is the familly courts systeme. But remember one thing GOD will be the last one to judge

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