Hi
So my vacation was nice but while I was gone her having the house to herself was a huge mistake.
She has gone through everything, papers, pictures you name it. I haven't a clue whats missing.
Anyways she has changed her routine dramatically, leaves in the early morning, returns late in the evening...last night she came in about 7pm and left around 11pm or midnight still is not home yet. Kitchen looked liked a football team hit it. Heard her throwing up in the bathroom several times.
My questions I hope someone can answer.
1. we have a car, its in her name. she takes it all day and we have zero way of getting about. Does she have legal ownership? no my name is not on the ownership paper.
2. she has struck both kids in the face..open hand while they sat in the back of the car acting up..this was a year ago is there anything that can be done?
3. My wife asked my to sign a paper to release her from any and all financial liability to our house.. If I sign it can I kick her out?
4. This is my last question and somewhat important, if she gets a mood on and leaves can she take the kids with her? No papers that I know of have been filed for custody but then again they could have. But if not and it's just her wanting to go and take the kids can she do it?
My son is 13 and wont go, and as far and I know he his old enough to express his rights and opinions, my daughter however is 7 and if she takes her it will break my heart, she means a great deal to me and we are very close.
5. CAS came to our house a while ago... When he spoke to my son he wanted to tell the guy about her hitting him but was to scared and emotional. Should I bring this up with him or leave it alone. My son wants me to press the issue so am I'm being petty, my wife can be very hostile at times. Just ask the whole block we live on.
I'm so frustrated and tired, head games are for the school yard not adult life. She has cancelled any service in her name, the hydro is getting cut off, I have to make arrangements with them to switch in to my name. She cut the phone off... I have no home phone. Then comes home and watches tv like everything is peachy. If I didn't have kids I swear I'd jump in front of a train.
6. How the hell do you sleep? I cant shut my damn head off. Everything over and over. I cant concentrate on tv to get in to a movie or show.
I think I have lost 10 pounds or so and I'm a small guy, losing weight is not good. Soon a gust of wind might carry me off. I'm starving but when I go to eat it just makes me want to puke. I bet I have a 29" waist.
I don't drink but sometimes wish I did, I don't smoke... There is a rut in my hallway floor I have wore from pacing. Things that need to get done are getting pushed aside. Everything is a mess. She wants to go I wish she would and we could start to regain some normal day to day life.
Oh and she has found this site ( hi ) and has likely made an account. She knows my username now. The thread title was a dead give away.
So she now knows anything and everything and had adjusted herself accordingly. I assume this is why she is gone all day.
Sorry I guess I wasn't done at number 4, I tend to rant on a bit when I'm frustrated. I keep this to myself. I do not talk about personal life with friends or family. I find this whole thing rather embarrassing.
So my vacation was nice but while I was gone her having the house to herself was a huge mistake.
She has gone through everything, papers, pictures you name it. I haven't a clue whats missing.
Anyways she has changed her routine dramatically, leaves in the early morning, returns late in the evening...last night she came in about 7pm and left around 11pm or midnight still is not home yet. Kitchen looked liked a football team hit it. Heard her throwing up in the bathroom several times.
My questions I hope someone can answer.
1. we have a car, its in her name. she takes it all day and we have zero way of getting about. Does she have legal ownership? no my name is not on the ownership paper.
2. she has struck both kids in the face..open hand while they sat in the back of the car acting up..this was a year ago is there anything that can be done?
3. My wife asked my to sign a paper to release her from any and all financial liability to our house.. If I sign it can I kick her out?
4. This is my last question and somewhat important, if she gets a mood on and leaves can she take the kids with her? No papers that I know of have been filed for custody but then again they could have. But if not and it's just her wanting to go and take the kids can she do it?
My son is 13 and wont go, and as far and I know he his old enough to express his rights and opinions, my daughter however is 7 and if she takes her it will break my heart, she means a great deal to me and we are very close.
5. CAS came to our house a while ago... When he spoke to my son he wanted to tell the guy about her hitting him but was to scared and emotional. Should I bring this up with him or leave it alone. My son wants me to press the issue so am I'm being petty, my wife can be very hostile at times. Just ask the whole block we live on.
I'm so frustrated and tired, head games are for the school yard not adult life. She has cancelled any service in her name, the hydro is getting cut off, I have to make arrangements with them to switch in to my name. She cut the phone off... I have no home phone. Then comes home and watches tv like everything is peachy. If I didn't have kids I swear I'd jump in front of a train.
6. How the hell do you sleep? I cant shut my damn head off. Everything over and over. I cant concentrate on tv to get in to a movie or show.
I think I have lost 10 pounds or so and I'm a small guy, losing weight is not good. Soon a gust of wind might carry me off. I'm starving but when I go to eat it just makes me want to puke. I bet I have a 29" waist.
I don't drink but sometimes wish I did, I don't smoke... There is a rut in my hallway floor I have wore from pacing. Things that need to get done are getting pushed aside. Everything is a mess. She wants to go I wish she would and we could start to regain some normal day to day life.
Oh and she has found this site ( hi ) and has likely made an account. She knows my username now. The thread title was a dead give away.
So she now knows anything and everything and had adjusted herself accordingly. I assume this is why she is gone all day.
Sorry I guess I wasn't done at number 4, I tend to rant on a bit when I'm frustrated. I keep this to myself. I do not talk about personal life with friends or family. I find this whole thing rather embarrassing.
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