Insanity or stress ?
I suppose it's normal with the divorce trial being very near that the lawyer's are on a feeding frenzy? He's calling me up everyday and emailing me with new numbers and last-minute deals. He keeps throwing new figures at me and I feel like I'm going insane or is this just normal stress? If this keeps up I'm going to have a freeking heart attack before the end of the year.
How the hell is one supposed to make a clear decision when the numbers keep changing every day? I hate this ... what a shitty time to be making important decisions. Lump-sum or SS, keep the house or sell it - the offers change every five minutes! Is this a strategy to confuse the issues to the point where I would accept whatever crappy settlement they propose just to be done with it?
My STBX doesn't know what he wants as usual ... his lawyer is enabling him and salivating at all the billable hours he will be cashing in on! I suppose this is my STBX's last attempt at hurting me for (in his mind) being the reason he has a criminal record?
This is the worst hell of my entire stupid life!
Any words of wisdom would be appreciated.
End of rant.
Janibel
I suppose it's normal with the divorce trial being very near that the lawyer's are on a feeding frenzy? He's calling me up everyday and emailing me with new numbers and last-minute deals. He keeps throwing new figures at me and I feel like I'm going insane or is this just normal stress? If this keeps up I'm going to have a freeking heart attack before the end of the year.
How the hell is one supposed to make a clear decision when the numbers keep changing every day? I hate this ... what a shitty time to be making important decisions. Lump-sum or SS, keep the house or sell it - the offers change every five minutes! Is this a strategy to confuse the issues to the point where I would accept whatever crappy settlement they propose just to be done with it?
My STBX doesn't know what he wants as usual ... his lawyer is enabling him and salivating at all the billable hours he will be cashing in on! I suppose this is my STBX's last attempt at hurting me for (in his mind) being the reason he has a criminal record?
This is the worst hell of my entire stupid life!
Any words of wisdom would be appreciated.
End of rant.
Janibel
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