Can someone please tell me if this sounds right.
My husband has 2 kids....he and his ex do not speak (everytime we try, there are usually yelling and swearing involved from her side). Anyways, there is no communication, which makes it really hard. At the end of the year and due to the company my husband worked for, closed its doors - laid of 3000 people (automotive, off course) he is now in school to better himself and get a new career, he applied for a motion to change (not stop) support - she off course delayed it and now the time has come that no income is coming in (was getting severance) and so we don't know what to do with that since the Courts take forever, especially when you have an ex working against us. When we got a response to motion from the ex stating all these extraordinary expenses, they totalled $3000 for the year. Not one of these expenses was ever discussed, we just found out most of them now. Braces were given to a child that is 16 and I know it was for cosmetic purposes, 1 school trip that was $700 and since at the time he was making more compared to her (she worked part-time in an office - but is also out of work now and in school too) he is suppose to pay 70% and she is to pay 30%. If they were still married, this trip would not take place because of the financial situation - but she went ahead and sent the child, taking the credit and bad-mouthing the father for not paying. What are our legal rights here? Can she spend money and then throw us the bill at the end of year, every year. What kind of presidence is this setting? Does a father have any rights? I am a divorcee and my ex and I agree on ALL expenses that are to be shared...to me this is normal. My husband wants his kids, as do I, to have all that they would normally have, BUT when financial circumstances changes, then what - are we at the mercy of the courts and the Ex-wife???? HELP...I need some good advice.
My husband has 2 kids....he and his ex do not speak (everytime we try, there are usually yelling and swearing involved from her side). Anyways, there is no communication, which makes it really hard. At the end of the year and due to the company my husband worked for, closed its doors - laid of 3000 people (automotive, off course) he is now in school to better himself and get a new career, he applied for a motion to change (not stop) support - she off course delayed it and now the time has come that no income is coming in (was getting severance) and so we don't know what to do with that since the Courts take forever, especially when you have an ex working against us. When we got a response to motion from the ex stating all these extraordinary expenses, they totalled $3000 for the year. Not one of these expenses was ever discussed, we just found out most of them now. Braces were given to a child that is 16 and I know it was for cosmetic purposes, 1 school trip that was $700 and since at the time he was making more compared to her (she worked part-time in an office - but is also out of work now and in school too) he is suppose to pay 70% and she is to pay 30%. If they were still married, this trip would not take place because of the financial situation - but she went ahead and sent the child, taking the credit and bad-mouthing the father for not paying. What are our legal rights here? Can she spend money and then throw us the bill at the end of year, every year. What kind of presidence is this setting? Does a father have any rights? I am a divorcee and my ex and I agree on ALL expenses that are to be shared...to me this is normal. My husband wants his kids, as do I, to have all that they would normally have, BUT when financial circumstances changes, then what - are we at the mercy of the courts and the Ex-wife???? HELP...I need some good advice.
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