Hi all,
here's my situation. I just finished a case conference.
My case: ex is sole owner of her corporation. she does not have employees, she consults clients. since separation we have only used her T4 amount because that's all I thought I needed from her. however, I inadvertently found out that she makes double her income through her corporation. I didn't realize that income could be grossed up for someone who is self-employed or who is incorp. All this time I thought it was only to use the T4 amount. I know, what a big mistake! Right now, she is making it hard for me to get her full financials, however, in case conference she was ordered to do so. We need this to look at how much I have overpaid. I am not even sure I will get retro, but in any case, I would like to see it. So literally 15 minutes before case conference, her lawyer took mine aside and said, if you go for retroactive child support then my client will go for retro spousal. Are you kidding me! even the judge was surprised when they announced that as it was not in their original response to my application.
background on why ex does not have spousal. I signed over the house to her at time of divorce...all of it. A house worth over $600K as I did not want the kids to suffer the pains of fighting over the house and I did not want the children to have to move during such a sensitive and emotional time. I also let her have all the money in her corporation at that time which was over $100 K (the only reason she was able to save this much money is because I paid every single bill in that house for years). I literally was left just enough to put a deposit on a small home. That was okay for me at the time because my peace of mind and time with my kids meant more to me. Also, when she calculated child support using the set off formula, she used her T4 income which was only half of her income, not all income from her corporation. I did not know this at the time and had I gotten a lawyer, I would have received better advice. To be honest, if we had used her real income at the time, she would have been close to making the same income as me at the time, so not sure they would have even given it to her then.
At the time we signed the agreement, we verbally said that all the assets she gained should take care of spousal (house + earnings in her corp). Problem is, I did not sign a so called release for spousal. Keep in mind, we did this all without lawyers and used an online separation agreement. I only learned from my lawyer yesterday about a so called release for spousal, wish I had known to do this. Also note, that the ex earns through her corp close to 150K - 200K a year (half of what she reports on her T4). So not sure she is hard up for cash right now especially with her new husband who is also a high income earner in the 6 digit figure, she has been re-married for 2 years now. With her mortgage now paid off, and a new cottage, boats and sea doos how can a judge even say she needs spousal at this point.
So basically, now that I am reviewing child support retro and asking the courts to take into account her true income, she threatens drop this case or I will go for spousal retro all at the 11th hours.
any thoughts on this? does she even have a claim?
here's my situation. I just finished a case conference.
My case: ex is sole owner of her corporation. she does not have employees, she consults clients. since separation we have only used her T4 amount because that's all I thought I needed from her. however, I inadvertently found out that she makes double her income through her corporation. I didn't realize that income could be grossed up for someone who is self-employed or who is incorp. All this time I thought it was only to use the T4 amount. I know, what a big mistake! Right now, she is making it hard for me to get her full financials, however, in case conference she was ordered to do so. We need this to look at how much I have overpaid. I am not even sure I will get retro, but in any case, I would like to see it. So literally 15 minutes before case conference, her lawyer took mine aside and said, if you go for retroactive child support then my client will go for retro spousal. Are you kidding me! even the judge was surprised when they announced that as it was not in their original response to my application.
background on why ex does not have spousal. I signed over the house to her at time of divorce...all of it. A house worth over $600K as I did not want the kids to suffer the pains of fighting over the house and I did not want the children to have to move during such a sensitive and emotional time. I also let her have all the money in her corporation at that time which was over $100 K (the only reason she was able to save this much money is because I paid every single bill in that house for years). I literally was left just enough to put a deposit on a small home. That was okay for me at the time because my peace of mind and time with my kids meant more to me. Also, when she calculated child support using the set off formula, she used her T4 income which was only half of her income, not all income from her corporation. I did not know this at the time and had I gotten a lawyer, I would have received better advice. To be honest, if we had used her real income at the time, she would have been close to making the same income as me at the time, so not sure they would have even given it to her then.
At the time we signed the agreement, we verbally said that all the assets she gained should take care of spousal (house + earnings in her corp). Problem is, I did not sign a so called release for spousal. Keep in mind, we did this all without lawyers and used an online separation agreement. I only learned from my lawyer yesterday about a so called release for spousal, wish I had known to do this. Also note, that the ex earns through her corp close to 150K - 200K a year (half of what she reports on her T4). So not sure she is hard up for cash right now especially with her new husband who is also a high income earner in the 6 digit figure, she has been re-married for 2 years now. With her mortgage now paid off, and a new cottage, boats and sea doos how can a judge even say she needs spousal at this point.
So basically, now that I am reviewing child support retro and asking the courts to take into account her true income, she threatens drop this case or I will go for spousal retro all at the 11th hours.
any thoughts on this? does she even have a claim?
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