Originally posted by Berner_Faith
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I was at a crossroads in my life and had to make a very difficult decision...if i stayed in that small town and my current WIFE moved there as well, we both would have lost our jobs and one of us had to give up time with our children. I have a job that is extremely specialized and not easy to find or replace...my wife has a job that she's been at for 23 years and comes with a govt pension.
Where would we have been if both of us were jobless? How could we take care of our children then?
This is not about moving to make more money...this is about having a job period.
One of us had to move so it made more sense for me to move so that both of us could keep our jobs.
I for one believe that it is ok to start over again after a marriage falls apart...everyone deserves a second chance.
My reason for coming on this site was to talk to other people who feel that the system needs some changing...i am not blaming anyone for anything. I take responsibility for my decisions and am taking care of my kids to the best of my ability, even with a difficult ex who is unco-operative to say the least.
Again, i appreciate your feedback, but for those who are on the attack...that approach is completely unnecessary.
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