Does that mean there is hope for the marriage?
Be careful that you aren't giving her false hope if there really is no chance to fix things. In time every separated/divorced person figures out what their responsibilities towards a failed marriage is. You don't have to help her do that, in fact it's probably better to let her do it on her own..it means more and feels more honest.
If you are just trying to soften the blow, find another way to do it rather than letting her live with false hope. It will only make her angry later.
Be careful that you aren't giving her false hope if there really is no chance to fix things. In time every separated/divorced person figures out what their responsibilities towards a failed marriage is. You don't have to help her do that, in fact it's probably better to let her do it on her own..it means more and feels more honest.
If you are just trying to soften the blow, find another way to do it rather than letting her live with false hope. It will only make her angry later.
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