Okay, good to know. I will propose two arrangements in email. The first one would be the standard 2/2/3 and the other one will be based upon her work schedule.
At the end of the day, I want her to have maximum contact with him too as well as working around our schedules. Since is he 11 months old, I understand frequent contact is better for infant bonding correct?
So she works Monday-Tuesday 5-2am and Fri-Sat-Sun 9-6 and I am standard 8 t 4:30 M-F. I will propose that I take him 3 overnights from Saturday morning 8 am (she will be off the work) to and returning him Tuesday 8 am. Does that work? I realize tho she needs to find her own baby sitter on Tuesday. However, I can help her too in that regard. I would essentially have him 3 days and her 4 days correct without the Tuesday babysitting?
And great ideal about putting this in an email. This will at least provide a paper trail for the judge in how both parties are negotiating.
At the end of the day, I want her to have maximum contact with him too as well as working around our schedules. Since is he 11 months old, I understand frequent contact is better for infant bonding correct?
So she works Monday-Tuesday 5-2am and Fri-Sat-Sun 9-6 and I am standard 8 t 4:30 M-F. I will propose that I take him 3 overnights from Saturday morning 8 am (she will be off the work) to and returning him Tuesday 8 am. Does that work? I realize tho she needs to find her own baby sitter on Tuesday. However, I can help her too in that regard. I would essentially have him 3 days and her 4 days correct without the Tuesday babysitting?
And great ideal about putting this in an email. This will at least provide a paper trail for the judge in how both parties are negotiating.
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