I think this is the hardest part of going through a divorce.
When we were still living in the matrimonial home and sharing our parental time, kids would be spending more time with me than her. I was always doing something to keep myself busy and the children would stick close as they were curious to see what I was doing. Probably they were spying on me for their mother LOL. The thing is, when I lost access to the house after she changed the locks almost a year ago, it didn't take long after to completely lost contact with my kids. All communications had stopped the same day and around the same time. Since then, I would text and email them with no response... until the incident occurred.
After the incident through last week, I was restrained to communicate with them in any ways unless their is an agreement in place. I saw them five times during the summer and then nothing. When I finally got discharged for my mistake last week, I send a message to them to let them know that I was able to talk to them again and I would like to hear from them. Nothing... my message was read by both of them but no response.
Is it because they really don't want to talk to me or their mother is telling them not to response? I had a confirmation from CAS that the mother told the kids about the incident. My doubt is that the mother uses the criminal charge to her advantage to dissuade the kids from keeping any contact with me. Funny thing is that the kids had the same relation we use to have when I saw them this summer. Now, in her affidavit, she's stating that they don't wish to see nor spend time with their father at all. I'm pretty sure she's playing a game with them. Wouldn't be surprise that she threats to remove their iPods or cuts the WiFi access if they talk with me. Either she controls everything or "Brainwash" them in order to get more and more. Unreasonable she is.
I'm asking for just a simple "Hi dad!"... or at least... "HI" would be just fine with me. No response at all is just painful.
When we were still living in the matrimonial home and sharing our parental time, kids would be spending more time with me than her. I was always doing something to keep myself busy and the children would stick close as they were curious to see what I was doing. Probably they were spying on me for their mother LOL. The thing is, when I lost access to the house after she changed the locks almost a year ago, it didn't take long after to completely lost contact with my kids. All communications had stopped the same day and around the same time. Since then, I would text and email them with no response... until the incident occurred.
After the incident through last week, I was restrained to communicate with them in any ways unless their is an agreement in place. I saw them five times during the summer and then nothing. When I finally got discharged for my mistake last week, I send a message to them to let them know that I was able to talk to them again and I would like to hear from them. Nothing... my message was read by both of them but no response.
Is it because they really don't want to talk to me or their mother is telling them not to response? I had a confirmation from CAS that the mother told the kids about the incident. My doubt is that the mother uses the criminal charge to her advantage to dissuade the kids from keeping any contact with me. Funny thing is that the kids had the same relation we use to have when I saw them this summer. Now, in her affidavit, she's stating that they don't wish to see nor spend time with their father at all. I'm pretty sure she's playing a game with them. Wouldn't be surprise that she threats to remove their iPods or cuts the WiFi access if they talk with me. Either she controls everything or "Brainwash" them in order to get more and more. Unreasonable she is.
I'm asking for just a simple "Hi dad!"... or at least... "HI" would be just fine with me. No response at all is just painful.
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