So two questions:
I've recently headed back to work from mat leave. I've offered several ways to actually start getting some day care costs back from my ex. He firsts accused me of not sending them at all on my days. I offered to take pics of them at drop off or pic up. He then asked for receipts when he paid. I agreed as that's completely fair. Then he demands receipts before payment, which I then provide. He writes void across every receipt and says he doesn't agree with the amount. He knows the cost of day care. He's spoke to her about them. My lawyer has sent a letter asking for him to start paying. Still nothing after a week. This is really starting to affect me financially. Case Conference booked for June. Is there any way I can get some of the costs back before then?
Now the phone calls. We call every night to talk to our eldest son while in the others care. Several missed phone calls, several extremely late phone calls on his part. I've been denied a few. Most of his calls are under a minute. He asks inappropriate questions during the calls, like, "What's mommy doing?" Just recently, my mom was here and our little guy told the ex that. Ex blew up my phone demanding to know who was watching the kids. I've tried to address the inappropriate questions and late calls. They just keep happening. Our little guy has actually been frustrated with the calls when the ex interrupts him to say goodbye. So how do I move forward? Do the calls even serve any sort of purpose at this point? We have no written agreement. I just feel like I'm stuck dealing with a control freak who keeps sticking our son right in the middle to keep his hand in my life. I'd say our little guy is more upset with them at this point. Especially the missed calls. I have him sitting waiting for the call. Thoughts on what I should do here?
Thanks Again!
I've recently headed back to work from mat leave. I've offered several ways to actually start getting some day care costs back from my ex. He firsts accused me of not sending them at all on my days. I offered to take pics of them at drop off or pic up. He then asked for receipts when he paid. I agreed as that's completely fair. Then he demands receipts before payment, which I then provide. He writes void across every receipt and says he doesn't agree with the amount. He knows the cost of day care. He's spoke to her about them. My lawyer has sent a letter asking for him to start paying. Still nothing after a week. This is really starting to affect me financially. Case Conference booked for June. Is there any way I can get some of the costs back before then?
Now the phone calls. We call every night to talk to our eldest son while in the others care. Several missed phone calls, several extremely late phone calls on his part. I've been denied a few. Most of his calls are under a minute. He asks inappropriate questions during the calls, like, "What's mommy doing?" Just recently, my mom was here and our little guy told the ex that. Ex blew up my phone demanding to know who was watching the kids. I've tried to address the inappropriate questions and late calls. They just keep happening. Our little guy has actually been frustrated with the calls when the ex interrupts him to say goodbye. So how do I move forward? Do the calls even serve any sort of purpose at this point? We have no written agreement. I just feel like I'm stuck dealing with a control freak who keeps sticking our son right in the middle to keep his hand in my life. I'd say our little guy is more upset with them at this point. Especially the missed calls. I have him sitting waiting for the call. Thoughts on what I should do here?
Thanks Again!
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