Hi all,
This is my first post but I think you might find it interesting and I'm hoping that one of you might have heard of this situation before.
I have been divorced for 9 years and have spent 7 of them trying to get child support from my ex - joint access but they live with me. His parent's don't mind supporting him; but he finally did get a good income in 06 and I was able to secure a child support order. He and I don't talk to each other - he still doesn't take responsibility for his share in the marriage breakdown.
Anyway, long story short, he applied for a withdrawal of support in Nov 08, which I agreed to because he said he had lost his job. But in the papers I was served it said he lost his job in April of 2008 - I didn't know this. Now he wants me to pay him back all of the support from April - November 2008, even though he never advised me or FRO back in April and he continued to pay every month.
I am a legal assistant and cannot find a single situation where a support payor was granted a cash refund of child support. He and his lawyer refuse to believe that I actually used the money to support the children.
I have nothing to hide but "what the hell is this"?
Anyone ever hear of a child support payor doing this??? I really would appreciate any feedback I can get.
Thanks.
This is my first post but I think you might find it interesting and I'm hoping that one of you might have heard of this situation before.
I have been divorced for 9 years and have spent 7 of them trying to get child support from my ex - joint access but they live with me. His parent's don't mind supporting him; but he finally did get a good income in 06 and I was able to secure a child support order. He and I don't talk to each other - he still doesn't take responsibility for his share in the marriage breakdown.
Anyway, long story short, he applied for a withdrawal of support in Nov 08, which I agreed to because he said he had lost his job. But in the papers I was served it said he lost his job in April of 2008 - I didn't know this. Now he wants me to pay him back all of the support from April - November 2008, even though he never advised me or FRO back in April and he continued to pay every month.
I am a legal assistant and cannot find a single situation where a support payor was granted a cash refund of child support. He and his lawyer refuse to believe that I actually used the money to support the children.
I have nothing to hide but "what the hell is this"?
Anyone ever hear of a child support payor doing this??? I really would appreciate any feedback I can get.
Thanks.
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