Hi Everyone I am new to this board and wanted to start off by saying hi.
So I'll get to my situation and if I can get any advice it would be so much appreciated.
caught ex cheating October 2013 Separated Sept 2014. Unfortunately we did a separation agreement on our own and now she is seeking spousal support. Married 15 years and we have 2 children 11 and 13. She has worked off and on part time through out or marriage she is now working full time min wage. I make about $84.000 and I would assume she makes $21.000 I have met with my lawyer and he advised to offer a lump some , I did and I had it drawn up at $50.000 she then refused and came back at $600.00 a month indefinatly then viewable in 10 years. I currently pay $1070.00 a month in child support. She is now sending me emails indicating that if I don't come close to her number she will take me to court and the outcome will be way worse for me. My career by no means effected her career. I didn't even finish high school and worked at a factory till I worked my way into sales . I just don't know what to do anymore I'm so stressed over the whole thing. Do I just let her take me to court and see what the outcome is ? We have 50/50 split with the children which is also hard her and 80/20 on the kids extraordinary expenses Medical and sports
So I'll get to my situation and if I can get any advice it would be so much appreciated.
caught ex cheating October 2013 Separated Sept 2014. Unfortunately we did a separation agreement on our own and now she is seeking spousal support. Married 15 years and we have 2 children 11 and 13. She has worked off and on part time through out or marriage she is now working full time min wage. I make about $84.000 and I would assume she makes $21.000 I have met with my lawyer and he advised to offer a lump some , I did and I had it drawn up at $50.000 she then refused and came back at $600.00 a month indefinatly then viewable in 10 years. I currently pay $1070.00 a month in child support. She is now sending me emails indicating that if I don't come close to her number she will take me to court and the outcome will be way worse for me. My career by no means effected her career. I didn't even finish high school and worked at a factory till I worked my way into sales . I just don't know what to do anymore I'm so stressed over the whole thing. Do I just let her take me to court and see what the outcome is ? We have 50/50 split with the children which is also hard her and 80/20 on the kids extraordinary expenses Medical and sports
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