See this thread for the original occurrence.
http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...l-abuse-19550/
Since then there had been no issues, and they've got along alright, she started trusting him again and allowed him extra time with their daughter outside of what was dictated by the court order, to the extent that in a couple weeks the daughter is supposed to go with him for a 10 day stay.
Tonight she was contacted by a stranger via Facebook, and informed that she's witnessed him driving drunk with their daughter in the vehicle, as well as conducting drug deals. The stranger is apparently the girlfriend of the guy whom my girlfriends ex has been crashing on the couch of... that's a handful of a statement to write. And yes, a year and a half later he is still couch hopping.
Currently we are looking at...
1) She's going to drop in at the RCMP station tonight after she gets off work, talk to them and get their advice
2) Call Child Services or whatever it is called, and get their opinion and advice as well
3) Likely going to deny the 10 day visit, as she's not under any obligation to allow it. This will likely trigger threats of court though, and she's really enjoyed not having to deal with constant court drama for the last two years
What would your actions be in this situation? Any routes we may have missed, or do you think it's an over reaction?
http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...l-abuse-19550/
Since then there had been no issues, and they've got along alright, she started trusting him again and allowed him extra time with their daughter outside of what was dictated by the court order, to the extent that in a couple weeks the daughter is supposed to go with him for a 10 day stay.
Tonight she was contacted by a stranger via Facebook, and informed that she's witnessed him driving drunk with their daughter in the vehicle, as well as conducting drug deals. The stranger is apparently the girlfriend of the guy whom my girlfriends ex has been crashing on the couch of... that's a handful of a statement to write. And yes, a year and a half later he is still couch hopping.
Currently we are looking at...
1) She's going to drop in at the RCMP station tonight after she gets off work, talk to them and get their advice
2) Call Child Services or whatever it is called, and get their opinion and advice as well
3) Likely going to deny the 10 day visit, as she's not under any obligation to allow it. This will likely trigger threats of court though, and she's really enjoyed not having to deal with constant court drama for the last two years
What would your actions be in this situation? Any routes we may have missed, or do you think it's an over reaction?
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