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So here we go. Day X came. We had discharge hearing today in bankruptcy court (for those who forgot ex filled for bankruptcy to wipe out cost order to be able to comeback to family court).
So bankrupt presented her case why she should be given absolute discharge which basically come down to poor me I did not mean to go to court and I did it just to bring stability to child's life (how cynical is that?) and it's OCL fault that he gave her such report (which turn out to be not good because she lied .) But no she did not lie to him he just did bad job and did not go deep (sound familiar?)
Then I have opportunity to cross-examine her (yea it;s like I did not had it enough). So basically Bankrupt admitted on the record among whole bunch of another interesting distortions:
1. Justice Pazaratz just got confused and got all it wrong and everything what he wrote in his endorsement for the trial and cost order has nothing to do with reality - nice isn't it ? It also her bad English and again the fact that Pazaratz said there is no issue with English is his opinion and has nothing to do with reality.
2. Not only Pazaratz but another judge later did not get it right too.
3. Whole bunch of I do not know and I do not remember you confused me with dates.
Basically it came to the point that she applied for bankruptcy just to have fresh start (and yes I definitely brought to the court attention that bankruptcy filled on Feb 3 and another motion brought for feb 10 - so much for fresh start isn't it?) and she can not pay anything because she is on Ontario Works have just ~570 a month live with her brother and pay him $400 rent (isn't it anybody dream to have such nice helpful brother?), she has brain tummor and applied for disability and bla bla bla.
Interestingly enough when I asked how much child support you pay since kido with me full time she said nothing because there is no court order for her to pay CS (who knew that you actually required to have an order to support your kid - I did not know that and foolishly paid voluntarily).
I basically said at the end that it my hope that this court will send loud and clear message to this Bankrupt and all others who will come after her with the same issue that bankruptcy court is not going to allow that.
Result:
Judgement reserved (what I think is kind of good sign that Judge will do right thing or at least take close look on whole picture and how we get there - but of course you never know how it will turnout). (so I am on verdict watch like with Jodi Areas) - may take couple of month.
I will update this thread when I will have decision on Bankruptcy. Hopefully my ordeal will help someone with same issue in future.
WD
As for me if anyone missing me and wondering where I disappear (I don't really believe there is anyone). I am still looking for job and keep adding pounds
Kido is great - happy, healthy and stubborn (that all what matters).
JK on horizon
So here we go. Day X came. We had discharge hearing today in bankruptcy court (for those who forgot ex filled for bankruptcy to wipe out cost order to be able to comeback to family court).
So bankrupt presented her case why she should be given absolute discharge which basically come down to poor me I did not mean to go to court and I did it just to bring stability to child's life (how cynical is that?) and it's OCL fault that he gave her such report (which turn out to be not good because she lied .) But no she did not lie to him he just did bad job and did not go deep (sound familiar?)
Then I have opportunity to cross-examine her (yea it;s like I did not had it enough). So basically Bankrupt admitted on the record among whole bunch of another interesting distortions:
1. Justice Pazaratz just got confused and got all it wrong and everything what he wrote in his endorsement for the trial and cost order has nothing to do with reality - nice isn't it ? It also her bad English and again the fact that Pazaratz said there is no issue with English is his opinion and has nothing to do with reality.
2. Not only Pazaratz but another judge later did not get it right too.
3. Whole bunch of I do not know and I do not remember you confused me with dates.
Basically it came to the point that she applied for bankruptcy just to have fresh start (and yes I definitely brought to the court attention that bankruptcy filled on Feb 3 and another motion brought for feb 10 - so much for fresh start isn't it?) and she can not pay anything because she is on Ontario Works have just ~570 a month live with her brother and pay him $400 rent (isn't it anybody dream to have such nice helpful brother?), she has brain tummor and applied for disability and bla bla bla.
Interestingly enough when I asked how much child support you pay since kido with me full time she said nothing because there is no court order for her to pay CS (who knew that you actually required to have an order to support your kid - I did not know that and foolishly paid voluntarily).
I basically said at the end that it my hope that this court will send loud and clear message to this Bankrupt and all others who will come after her with the same issue that bankruptcy court is not going to allow that.
Result:
Judgement reserved (what I think is kind of good sign that Judge will do right thing or at least take close look on whole picture and how we get there - but of course you never know how it will turnout). (so I am on verdict watch like with Jodi Areas) - may take couple of month.
I will update this thread when I will have decision on Bankruptcy. Hopefully my ordeal will help someone with same issue in future.
WD
As for me if anyone missing me and wondering where I disappear (I don't really believe there is anyone). I am still looking for job and keep adding pounds
Kido is great - happy, healthy and stubborn (that all what matters).
JK on horizon
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