I cannot believe how many woman out there who bash their husband/boyfriends ex wives because of child and spousal support obligations. Comments like "2nd families are invisible" really burn my socks!
You damn well knew he had kids and an a previous family when you hooked up/married the guy.
Did you think that you were so special that your love would magically erase his obligations?
You knew how old his kids were when you decided to get pregnant.
Did you believe your new child was more important than his first child?
I can understand that it may not be an optimal financial situation when your hubby has to hand over a large portion of his paycheck to his ex...
If you new children are suffering, the law allows for his obligations to his other children be taken into consideration, so get a Lawyer and file a Motion to Vary.
But like I said, you knew the situation before you got involved. Don't act all shocked and angry now when you can't change it!!
Ohhh, and when he leaves you and your new children for his office assistant, don't you dare demand fairness when he tries to reduce YOUR support, so he can provide for his new wife/child!
You damn well knew he had kids and an a previous family when you hooked up/married the guy.
Did you think that you were so special that your love would magically erase his obligations?
You knew how old his kids were when you decided to get pregnant.
Did you believe your new child was more important than his first child?
I can understand that it may not be an optimal financial situation when your hubby has to hand over a large portion of his paycheck to his ex...
If you new children are suffering, the law allows for his obligations to his other children be taken into consideration, so get a Lawyer and file a Motion to Vary.
But like I said, you knew the situation before you got involved. Don't act all shocked and angry now when you can't change it!!
Ohhh, and when he leaves you and your new children for his office assistant, don't you dare demand fairness when he tries to reduce YOUR support, so he can provide for his new wife/child!
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