Have a question and Im hoping that there is some good advice to be had on this forum,
My sons mother asked me to trade days with her because she wouldn't be able to facilitate the exchange on her end. Her offer didn't work for me (the day she offered in lieu Im busy, and she refuses to give me a day the week after, even though I said she could pick the day), so now shes trying to force the situation.
She says that its my responsibility to have our child back in her care at the usual time, except she wont be at the usual dropoff point, shes going to be about a half hour away.
I explained that since I had not agreed to a switch, that nothing changes, and that she didn't need to be there to facilitate the exchange, but she needs to have someone else there to do it.
So now shes told me that I have to have him at the place she will be to drop him off or Im breaking the court order.
I do have this all on email (I have a custody evaluation highlighting significant interpersonal problems, she really is a handful), and I don't want to fight about it, however I think Ive been more than reasonable allowing her to pick a day that works for her the week after.
Before anyone suggests it, keeping the child late will not be an option, its her way or the highway.
Advice pls?
My sons mother asked me to trade days with her because she wouldn't be able to facilitate the exchange on her end. Her offer didn't work for me (the day she offered in lieu Im busy, and she refuses to give me a day the week after, even though I said she could pick the day), so now shes trying to force the situation.
She says that its my responsibility to have our child back in her care at the usual time, except she wont be at the usual dropoff point, shes going to be about a half hour away.
I explained that since I had not agreed to a switch, that nothing changes, and that she didn't need to be there to facilitate the exchange, but she needs to have someone else there to do it.
So now shes told me that I have to have him at the place she will be to drop him off or Im breaking the court order.
I do have this all on email (I have a custody evaluation highlighting significant interpersonal problems, she really is a handful), and I don't want to fight about it, however I think Ive been more than reasonable allowing her to pick a day that works for her the week after.
Before anyone suggests it, keeping the child late will not be an option, its her way or the highway.
Advice pls?
Comment