My wife and I have been pretty much apart since Sept. 09 when I found out she was seeing someone else. We tried to reconcile in March 2010 and things looked promising, we went on a nice vacation and we agreed to work on things. When we got back she started seeing the other guy again and that's when I called it quits.
A few months ago she had me falsely arrested and since that day I have not been home. I was never charged as the police saw through the allegations. We have two children who have been kept from me since I left. Had I not left, I have no doubt I would have found myself in jail. I have always been a good father to my kids but she has used every allegation in the book to try and get full custody of the kids.
We just had a case conference and my lawyer and I have been able to negotiate some things with her counsel. Things are looking up and I will be able to see my kids this coming weekend. We are working towards a 50/50 arrangement with her counsel. So everything is going better than expected.
I have never felt so sad in my entire life though. To see the woman I have two kids with hating me so much was tough. I have every right to do as much as I can against her but I just want what is fair for both of us. I hate the idea of her thinking that I hate her, because regardless of everything I don't. I have a big heart, and friends and family keep pushing me to do more to her because I'm being too soft, but it really hurts to be mean and hurtful to someone I have loved for so long.
I think that she needs help but who am I to say. Her bf was extremely mentally abusive and controlling over her, she has lost me and I think she is really worried about the future. We were best friends and it's so strange to have someone like that accuse me of everything in the book.
I really am having a very hard time with this. On top of everything I keep having to work overtime and sitting alone in my office after everyone goes home is very hard when this stuff is on my mind.
A few months ago she had me falsely arrested and since that day I have not been home. I was never charged as the police saw through the allegations. We have two children who have been kept from me since I left. Had I not left, I have no doubt I would have found myself in jail. I have always been a good father to my kids but she has used every allegation in the book to try and get full custody of the kids.
We just had a case conference and my lawyer and I have been able to negotiate some things with her counsel. Things are looking up and I will be able to see my kids this coming weekend. We are working towards a 50/50 arrangement with her counsel. So everything is going better than expected.
I have never felt so sad in my entire life though. To see the woman I have two kids with hating me so much was tough. I have every right to do as much as I can against her but I just want what is fair for both of us. I hate the idea of her thinking that I hate her, because regardless of everything I don't. I have a big heart, and friends and family keep pushing me to do more to her because I'm being too soft, but it really hurts to be mean and hurtful to someone I have loved for so long.
I think that she needs help but who am I to say. Her bf was extremely mentally abusive and controlling over her, she has lost me and I think she is really worried about the future. We were best friends and it's so strange to have someone like that accuse me of everything in the book.
I really am having a very hard time with this. On top of everything I keep having to work overtime and sitting alone in my office after everyone goes home is very hard when this stuff is on my mind.
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