Hi,
I have some questions, and very confused despite retaining a lawyer for a separation between my STBXH and I. I'm getting extremely stressed out and I feel like I have no support. I'm at the end of my wits, and I just want some answers!
Some background information, we have 2 young children, one daughter and son who is autistic and I make about 30K more in salary. We are sharing custody even though he barely spends any time with the kids. He is delaying when I want to get away from all this nastiness. My daughter is crying from the fights and my son is acting out and I am barely holding it together. He is being very passive aggressive whenever I ask him for anything. Everything is starting to get to me. On top of all that, he has been in an EA with my best friend for a year. I cry everyday at this complete betrayal.
My STBXH along with his parents own a cottage in the United States. When his parents bought it 5 years ago they just put his name on the ownership. He didn't pay anything. Am I entitled through equalization to get a share of this? I don't have any information as he kept the deed to himself and I don't even know where it is.
I had talked to 2 different lawyers on free consultation with my work benefits program and they both said no. My current lawyer whom I retained said I am entitled of one half of my STBXH's share.
What is the answer here? My lawyer is very harsh to me. He keeps telling me to keep it together and I'm trying. Maybe I'm too sensitive but he talks very rudely to me.
Also, my STBXH's lawyer is currently drawing up the separation agreement. He however is delaying and I don't know why? Is there a reason why he would delay? My lawyer doesn't seem to think it is a big deal. What benefit would it be to delay things? I've already given my financial disclosure and my STBXH hasn't even started! It's been 3 months and nothing. Do I ask for it and give him a deadline?
My STBXH also wants to move near his family but it would be very hard on me because I would have to commute to work from a long distance if I lived there. But the problem is I can't find a school to accept my son until next year! Right now we are living separately in the same house. It's so hard. He texts my ex best friend right in front of me. I cannot live with this for an entire year!
I have some questions, and very confused despite retaining a lawyer for a separation between my STBXH and I. I'm getting extremely stressed out and I feel like I have no support. I'm at the end of my wits, and I just want some answers!
Some background information, we have 2 young children, one daughter and son who is autistic and I make about 30K more in salary. We are sharing custody even though he barely spends any time with the kids. He is delaying when I want to get away from all this nastiness. My daughter is crying from the fights and my son is acting out and I am barely holding it together. He is being very passive aggressive whenever I ask him for anything. Everything is starting to get to me. On top of all that, he has been in an EA with my best friend for a year. I cry everyday at this complete betrayal.
My STBXH along with his parents own a cottage in the United States. When his parents bought it 5 years ago they just put his name on the ownership. He didn't pay anything. Am I entitled through equalization to get a share of this? I don't have any information as he kept the deed to himself and I don't even know where it is.
I had talked to 2 different lawyers on free consultation with my work benefits program and they both said no. My current lawyer whom I retained said I am entitled of one half of my STBXH's share.
What is the answer here? My lawyer is very harsh to me. He keeps telling me to keep it together and I'm trying. Maybe I'm too sensitive but he talks very rudely to me.
Also, my STBXH's lawyer is currently drawing up the separation agreement. He however is delaying and I don't know why? Is there a reason why he would delay? My lawyer doesn't seem to think it is a big deal. What benefit would it be to delay things? I've already given my financial disclosure and my STBXH hasn't even started! It's been 3 months and nothing. Do I ask for it and give him a deadline?
My STBXH also wants to move near his family but it would be very hard on me because I would have to commute to work from a long distance if I lived there. But the problem is I can't find a school to accept my son until next year! Right now we are living separately in the same house. It's so hard. He texts my ex best friend right in front of me. I cannot live with this for an entire year!
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