Just wondering if anyone has an order with a clause for the use of a mediator and if they would mind sharing.
My ex is stupidly high conflict, so I need it to be as specific as possible.
/vent
We had an appearance before the judge, and her lawyer was successful in getting his parental capacity assessment ordered and the safety net clause that was previously agreed to, and subsequently reneged upon by his client, removed.
The judge decided to recommend we use a "mediator, but not really a mediator, more of an arbitrator" to bring issues up as they arose.
/facepalm
So now I get to craft a clause to use a method that will take weeks if not months to get up and running, will cost me more $$ (that she won't contribute to) and she won't bother following anyway.
/endvent
Blah.
Anyway, if anyone has suggestions re: wording I'd appreciate some examples. I'll be a good little boy and play ball, and let the ex's actions, or lack thereof, speak for themselves.
My ex is stupidly high conflict, so I need it to be as specific as possible.
/vent
We had an appearance before the judge, and her lawyer was successful in getting his parental capacity assessment ordered and the safety net clause that was previously agreed to, and subsequently reneged upon by his client, removed.
The judge decided to recommend we use a "mediator, but not really a mediator, more of an arbitrator" to bring issues up as they arose.
/facepalm
So now I get to craft a clause to use a method that will take weeks if not months to get up and running, will cost me more $$ (that she won't contribute to) and she won't bother following anyway.
/endvent
Blah.
Anyway, if anyone has suggestions re: wording I'd appreciate some examples. I'll be a good little boy and play ball, and let the ex's actions, or lack thereof, speak for themselves.
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