I am just wondering if anyone has anything positive to say about their cases? Yes I know this is a long battle and I've heard all the negative press about trying to fight for what is right but I am so emotionally spun, I just want to believe there will be an eventual end result of some kind of workable peace and family life ahead.
I am a step mom of two wonderful girls (6 and 7). They are so fragile and the situation just keeps getting worse. We have called CAS, the school, and have tried counseling. We make sure they get plenty of love and attention when they are here with us but it feels like a drop in a bucket compared to the crazy, erratic, and sometimes cruel manipulations they endure at their moms.
We are in debt and incurring more by going the legal route as any attempts to negotiate a peaceful resolution have been blocked. We have tried everything but it is always the kids that suffer. I am so worried about them. I am worried about us.
It seems like all anyone has to say is how mom's can get away with abusing their kids, parent alienation, lies and cruelty and the courts do nothing about it but suck you dry? Is it really as faulty as that? Do the courts really not take into account the children's well being? I want to protect these kids and help them become kind, caring well adjusted people like I have done with my own son.
If I do nothing about their pain, I feel I am as bad as the one hurting them. Morally idealistic perhaps. Misguided definitely.
Please if anyone has anything useful to say about how peace, resolution, protection can be found at the end of all this? I really need to have an infusion of hope right now.
I am a step mom of two wonderful girls (6 and 7). They are so fragile and the situation just keeps getting worse. We have called CAS, the school, and have tried counseling. We make sure they get plenty of love and attention when they are here with us but it feels like a drop in a bucket compared to the crazy, erratic, and sometimes cruel manipulations they endure at their moms.
We are in debt and incurring more by going the legal route as any attempts to negotiate a peaceful resolution have been blocked. We have tried everything but it is always the kids that suffer. I am so worried about them. I am worried about us.
It seems like all anyone has to say is how mom's can get away with abusing their kids, parent alienation, lies and cruelty and the courts do nothing about it but suck you dry? Is it really as faulty as that? Do the courts really not take into account the children's well being? I want to protect these kids and help them become kind, caring well adjusted people like I have done with my own son.
If I do nothing about their pain, I feel I am as bad as the one hurting them. Morally idealistic perhaps. Misguided definitely.
Please if anyone has anything useful to say about how peace, resolution, protection can be found at the end of all this? I really need to have an infusion of hope right now.
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