About a week ago I went to pick up my son. When we arrived home my ex called him on his cell (yes she bought him a cellphone, he is 8) and he said something that caught my attention. He asked her is it OK that I sleep on my bed next time and (bf) on the floor. She yelled at his and said don't lie that you slept on the floor, didn't I tell you that you will lose me if you speak about such things. Then the little one told me that he slept on the floor, on a blanked and pillow while her bf slepton his bed. (She has an apartment now with 2 br but 1 br has no bed yet).
So I called her back and I said I can get her a mattress for the kid (borrow the money) and that's when the hell broke. She started yelling at me that it isn't true and so on. She is too afraid of cas I think. I didn't wanna bother to ask why her bf don't sleep on the couch because maybe it was a one time thing or maybe kid slept there for an hour or so....
She said she is coming over to my house to teach the kid a lesson. I had my sister and her H for visit. I said don't even dare, if you wanna talk about it tomorrow is ok, or some other day. She said I'm coming, I said don't, I wont open the door. 30 minutes later she calls again and said Im coming. She called when she was standing in front of my door. I didn't even hear the ring bell. One of the kids opened the door.
When she entered the house she made a hell. Started yelling at the child, punched me 2x in the abdomen. I took my phone from the pocket and dialed 911. She yells at the child "look your dad wants to put your mom to jail" I told my sister to move the kids to another room and distract them but she punched her 2x as well in the arm. The problem was the police was too slow asking me bunch of questions and then transferred me to dispatch who questioned me again.
When I got off the phone I took the child and turned on his video game which he likes just to distract him, in his bedroom. The ex was talking quietly to my bro-in-law (she was saying how the child often complains that she is neglegent when she is not) and I just said, you made a problem without a reason tonight. She said you were going to take child from me by calling cas and make me a negligent mother. I said I never told you that, although I don't like your parenting I never got involved what happens in your home and as much as I think you deserve EOW I can't do it because of the kid, even if I could make it happen legally.
Police arrived, if I was her, they would IMO handcuff me immediately but they were all very polite at least. The officer who spoke to me asked me what do I want them to do with her. I would love have her arrested but because of the little one, no way. I would never do something that hurts him. I said to police that she never enters my home without my permission.
So that was the drama. I would like to see what you guys think about it. Should and can I get police report? Something like this never happened to me before. After that incident when she phoned the child she was very polite and is trying hard to talk to me via phone or text because she maybe thinks what she did may look bad on her or that I can start some legal process. Even if I wanted IDK what and how.
So I called her back and I said I can get her a mattress for the kid (borrow the money) and that's when the hell broke. She started yelling at me that it isn't true and so on. She is too afraid of cas I think. I didn't wanna bother to ask why her bf don't sleep on the couch because maybe it was a one time thing or maybe kid slept there for an hour or so....
She said she is coming over to my house to teach the kid a lesson. I had my sister and her H for visit. I said don't even dare, if you wanna talk about it tomorrow is ok, or some other day. She said I'm coming, I said don't, I wont open the door. 30 minutes later she calls again and said Im coming. She called when she was standing in front of my door. I didn't even hear the ring bell. One of the kids opened the door.
When she entered the house she made a hell. Started yelling at the child, punched me 2x in the abdomen. I took my phone from the pocket and dialed 911. She yells at the child "look your dad wants to put your mom to jail" I told my sister to move the kids to another room and distract them but she punched her 2x as well in the arm. The problem was the police was too slow asking me bunch of questions and then transferred me to dispatch who questioned me again.
When I got off the phone I took the child and turned on his video game which he likes just to distract him, in his bedroom. The ex was talking quietly to my bro-in-law (she was saying how the child often complains that she is neglegent when she is not) and I just said, you made a problem without a reason tonight. She said you were going to take child from me by calling cas and make me a negligent mother. I said I never told you that, although I don't like your parenting I never got involved what happens in your home and as much as I think you deserve EOW I can't do it because of the kid, even if I could make it happen legally.
Police arrived, if I was her, they would IMO handcuff me immediately but they were all very polite at least. The officer who spoke to me asked me what do I want them to do with her. I would love have her arrested but because of the little one, no way. I would never do something that hurts him. I said to police that she never enters my home without my permission.
So that was the drama. I would like to see what you guys think about it. Should and can I get police report? Something like this never happened to me before. After that incident when she phoned the child she was very polite and is trying hard to talk to me via phone or text because she maybe thinks what she did may look bad on her or that I can start some legal process. Even if I wanted IDK what and how.
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