Today I received my forms in the mail for the FRO along with case number. The problem I am having with them are the portion they are requesting from me about the my ex (the payor) that I cannot possibly have any knowledge of! I have no idea when he moved to the place he is at, I only found out he moved after receiving copies of the sentencing on his live-in girlfriend. I have no clue where he works, who he works for, what he makes, who he worked for prior to where he is at now, when, for how long, where he banks, what vehicles he may have or if he owns or leases them, what the plates on his vehicle is, what his drivers license number is.
How in the HE double hockey stick am I to know this information about the ex to even fill out the forms! What exactly is the point of the FRO if you cannot fill out & send in the forms to have your court order enforced when they are asking for information that is completely impossible for me to get from any source.
He has still not provided financial disclosure, this was supposed to be filed & served by September 2nd court, adjourned to 16th where the interim order was made on a lower amount than it's expected he is making - due to no financial disclosure, and now it's mid-October, child support is already in arrears, the next court date is not until November 18th and I gather I am now expected to sit on these forms I cannot complete & hope that his lawyer provides me with some information to even send the forms back to the FRO.
This is absolute BS to expect this kind of information from me when I am not the one paying the child support.
Someone remind me what the point of even going to court to get an order I can't get enforced was for..
How in the HE double hockey stick am I to know this information about the ex to even fill out the forms! What exactly is the point of the FRO if you cannot fill out & send in the forms to have your court order enforced when they are asking for information that is completely impossible for me to get from any source.
He has still not provided financial disclosure, this was supposed to be filed & served by September 2nd court, adjourned to 16th where the interim order was made on a lower amount than it's expected he is making - due to no financial disclosure, and now it's mid-October, child support is already in arrears, the next court date is not until November 18th and I gather I am now expected to sit on these forms I cannot complete & hope that his lawyer provides me with some information to even send the forms back to the FRO.
This is absolute BS to expect this kind of information from me when I am not the one paying the child support.
Someone remind me what the point of even going to court to get an order I can't get enforced was for..
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