Ok folks - I really need some advice here.
Background - two children, shared custody. Access was week to week until last Sept when it switched to weekends with dad, weekdays with me so they could go to school near my home.
Over the last yeah and a half my ex's life has been going to hell in a handbasket. He hasn't worked, he's now on Ontario works, he was evicted from his home, and CAS and the police have been involved because of some domestic stuff with his ex-girlfriend. Who he continues to stay with and spend a significant amount of time with.
I don't know all the stuff that has been going on because I am not allowed to see the police reports, etc.
After CAS's involvement in Jan, things have been fairly quiet. Then this weekend my ex asked me to keep the children because his ex's family had called the police on him and he didn't want the girls to be with him when he got picked up. I again, don't know what is really going on because all I get are rambling text messages and emails that really don't make much sense.
His texts indicated that he believed his ex's family had taken her phone from her. He sent me several screen captures of his texts to her and they state things like 'if this is the police, I'm not being evasive' and 'give her back her phone'. I have no idea if they actually took her phone or not but she's an adult so I find it difficult to believe...
Yesterday my ex and I were both at the court house and spoke briefly. He told me that the police had deleted the messages he showed me from his phone over the weekend (messages he was clearly planning to use as 'evidence' of something'). He actually sent me screen shots of his phone that shows a black box over some of his messages. In addition, he tried to email the officer that handled whatever issues he had with his ex and received an automated out-of-office message which he believes somehow backs up his conspiracy that the police deleted his messages. To make matters worse, the CAS worker was also on vacation when he called and her message said not to leave a voicemail so this is apparently also part of the conspiracy.
I am completely freaked out. He is clearly having a break with reality and I don't know what to do.
Does anyone have any advice??
Background - two children, shared custody. Access was week to week until last Sept when it switched to weekends with dad, weekdays with me so they could go to school near my home.
Over the last yeah and a half my ex's life has been going to hell in a handbasket. He hasn't worked, he's now on Ontario works, he was evicted from his home, and CAS and the police have been involved because of some domestic stuff with his ex-girlfriend. Who he continues to stay with and spend a significant amount of time with.
I don't know all the stuff that has been going on because I am not allowed to see the police reports, etc.
After CAS's involvement in Jan, things have been fairly quiet. Then this weekend my ex asked me to keep the children because his ex's family had called the police on him and he didn't want the girls to be with him when he got picked up. I again, don't know what is really going on because all I get are rambling text messages and emails that really don't make much sense.
His texts indicated that he believed his ex's family had taken her phone from her. He sent me several screen captures of his texts to her and they state things like 'if this is the police, I'm not being evasive' and 'give her back her phone'. I have no idea if they actually took her phone or not but she's an adult so I find it difficult to believe...
Yesterday my ex and I were both at the court house and spoke briefly. He told me that the police had deleted the messages he showed me from his phone over the weekend (messages he was clearly planning to use as 'evidence' of something'). He actually sent me screen shots of his phone that shows a black box over some of his messages. In addition, he tried to email the officer that handled whatever issues he had with his ex and received an automated out-of-office message which he believes somehow backs up his conspiracy that the police deleted his messages. To make matters worse, the CAS worker was also on vacation when he called and her message said not to leave a voicemail so this is apparently also part of the conspiracy.
I am completely freaked out. He is clearly having a break with reality and I don't know what to do.
Does anyone have any advice??
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