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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 01:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 268
Posted By rockscan
I hate christmas too. My partners ex pulled this...

I hate christmas too. My partners ex pulled this stunt the first year he was to have them. The ensuing disagreement painted him as an abusive bully and the kids stopped speaking to him. That led to...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 11:01 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 268
Posted By rockscan
Mom needs to remind dad (in writing) that he is...

Mom needs to remind dad (in writing) that he is to work out details with her not the child and to stop dragging kid into the middle.

Is it her year to have child over christmas?
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 09:43 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 268
Posted By rockscan
Then you tell him you are following the order as...

Then you tell him you are following the order as written. You will bring the child to the airport on the day listed.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-21-2017, 09:38 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
My partners lawyer has provided us with a great...

My partners lawyer has provided us with a great deal of insight on the DBS decision. To boil it down, if a support payor has been found to have failed at disclosing changes to their income and...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-21-2017, 12:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 152
Posted By rockscan
Do the children have access to a computer? Can...

Do the children have access to a computer? Can you skype with them?

Even if you got them cell phones, theres nothing to stop your ex from taking them away or making them not answer when they are...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-21-2017, 12:11 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
Request full disclosure of his income for the...

Request full disclosure of his income for the last three years. Depending on what that amount is you can apply it to your portion of expenses and cs.

Remember too that not all expenses will be...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-21-2017, 12:06 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 152
Posted By rockscan
FRO will take the SA. Its an order regardless of...

FRO will take the SA. Its an order regardless of whether it has a judges stamp on it.

You can’t subtract the cell phone amount from the cs. Its guideline amount and thats the law.

If her...
Forum: Common Law Issues 11-21-2017, 12:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 211
Posted By rockscan
What are my chances to reduce my arrears?

You can file in your jurisdiction.

The motion to change is simple and based on fact of your income.

You could argue that your cs has been overpaid based on your income but that may require...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-18-2017, 08:22 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 526
Posted By rockscan
Unfortunately there are a number of things that...

Unfortunately there are a number of things that are an issue now. 1. You werent able to stop the move. She left without your permission and established a status quo. 2. You can’t enforce her meeting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-17-2017, 06:39 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 526
Posted By rockscan
Hes 14. Kids get into trouble and pot is nothing....

Hes 14. Kids get into trouble and pot is nothing. Plus you cant parent from six hours away and to a child who lives with the parent who lets him do whatever. My partner went through this. His ex’s...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-17-2017, 12:02 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 526
Posted By rockscan
Hes old enough to make that decision and there is...

Hes old enough to make that decision and there is no legal recourse you can take. You should stop going through your ex and start reaching out to your son on a regular basis. He is allowed to do...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-17-2017, 10:09 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
This is ridiculous. So what if the kids are going...

This is ridiculous. So what if the kids are going to the gf? Or the ex’s parents? Its better than some sleep away camp in the woods! This screams of jealousy towards the ex’s new partner. GET OVER...
Forum: Political Issues 11-17-2017, 08:39 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
Thats what I was thinking. I know of a family...

Thats what I was thinking. I know of a family with a 22 yo with cerebral palsy. The parents split when she was 17. Thankfully both parents are committed to supporting her continual in home care with...
Forum: Political Issues 11-16-2017, 01:46 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
Different issue.

Different issue.
Forum: Political Issues 11-16-2017, 01:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
Most intact families with a disabled child...

Most intact families with a disabled child continue to support and care for their child. Its the varying levels of disability that impact them. There has also been ongoing struggles for families of...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-14-2017, 01:01 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
I believe that its simply a motion to change...

I believe that its simply a motion to change child support (but I could be wrong) and Im not sure how the applicant/respondent element works but part of your argument is to request specific expenses...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-14-2017, 12:32 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
Is he filing for a change to cs?

Is he filing for a change to cs?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2017, 11:22 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 486
Posted By rockscan
You may want to look into daycare subsidies as...

You may want to look into daycare subsidies as well. Unfortunately for your ex, children need to be looked after and daycare is much cheaper than spousal support. In the end, his contribution to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2017, 09:46 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 486
Posted By rockscan
As many have pointed out on other threads—you...

As many have pointed out on other threads—you can’t fix stupid or force a parent to parent their child. If your ex does not want 50/50 then he will have to pay a portion of daycare. Its in the child...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2017, 02:27 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 974
Posted By rockscan
Classic gatekeeper. My partners ex pulled the...

Classic gatekeeper. My partners ex pulled the same stunt when he moved into his house because she was pissed he was making a bedroom for them that the kids couldnt stop talking about.

Tell her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2017, 06:22 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 462
Posted By rockscan
Really? Youre going to bring this up in court?...

Really? Youre going to bring this up in court? Throw the clothes into the wash when they arrive and clean the irritant out. I cannot believe you would play into this bs. Anyone who has an allergy...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2017, 10:22 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 434
Posted By rockscan
You need to do a search of the forum. LF32 has...

You need to do a search of the forum. LF32 has discussed these topics at length in other threads.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2017, 12:33 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 975
Posted By rockscan
The day care contract will be important. Most day...

The day care contract will be important. Most day cares still require payment for sick days and vacation. They can get away with it because there is a shortage of in home day cares.

I would think...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2017, 07:54 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 140
Posted By rockscan
Why would you need an affidavit from someone else?

Why would you need an affidavit from someone else?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2017, 04:45 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 761
Posted By rockscan
For some parents, when they are asked for...

For some parents, when they are asked for disclosure they suddenly start making accusations over everything. From what you said, your ex is accusing you of denying access when you say no to a last...
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