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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-19-2017, 04:38 PM
Replies: 2
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Posted By Dad1985
The in house visit to view you with the child? ...

The in house visit to view you with the child?

Mine was 2 hours. The ocl sat in the kitchen on her laptop. She peaked up every 20 min or so just to view anything going on. We did not speak much...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-17-2017, 03:56 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 503
Posted By Dad1985
What would be considered enough delay to have the...

What would be considered enough delay to have the OCL dated?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2017, 06:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 503
Posted By Dad1985
I have received their offer. It asks for ...

I have received their offer.

It asks for

- more money
- travel without consent
- my access every other weekend Fri - sun starting 2019.
- sole custody
- no real way to revisit
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2017, 04:53 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 503
Posted By Dad1985
We had submitted a new offer which was more in...

We had submitted a new offer which was more in line with OCL gradual increases.
We asked shared parenting to be "revised" without need to submit material change of circumstances.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2017, 04:05 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 503
Posted By Dad1985
I can't help but think that all this money spent...

I can't help but think that all this money spent could we going toward my daughter.

The courts have not been generous in my fight so far.
The OCL heavily favors Mom with vague recommendations...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-13-2017, 08:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 503
Posted By Dad1985
Next Steps - Trial

Hello everyone

I posted a couple months ago regarding my OCL report. The report favored the mother and recommended sole custody to the mother. for me, 4 hours a week with increases after 6 month...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2017, 04:08 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Do we have to come up with a final agreement or...

Do we have to come up with a final agreement or else go straight to trial?

I'm not really looking to agree on sole. Given my daughter is young the courts have not agreed to shared.

Is it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-30-2017, 09:58 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
I've been fighting it since my daughter was about...

I've been fighting it since my daughter was about 4-5 months when I realized things were going to go this way.


We are now waiting on a proposal offer that will counter our settlement offer. I'm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 06:11 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
As much as I can go and ask for things it's not...

As much as I can go and ask for things it's not happening. Were in the court process and she's being fully endorsed.

I started the court process about 4-5 months in and made my position clear I'm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 04:56 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Right now I have every Sunday from 230 to 630 ...

Right now I have every Sunday from 230 to 630

The judge said she thinks I should get more time now.
So I asked for 12-8

Ex responded it won't work and responded with an extra hour. I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 04:39 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
My daughter recently turned 2. Her mother...

My daughter recently turned 2.
Her mother decided she didn't want to be with me 2 weeks after our daughter was born. She mentioned she wanted to live with her parents after our daughter was born. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 03:54 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Errr NEVER AN ORDER FOR SUPERVISED ACCESS My...

Errr
NEVER AN ORDER FOR SUPERVISED ACCESS
My ex just chose to do this
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 03:53 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
There was never an order for unsupervised access....

There was never an order for unsupervised access. The mother came along during all the time given. During this time it was a take it or leave it from my ex. 3 hours a week. 2 hours at a playcentre 1...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 03:27 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
The judge also made a very stern comment saying a...

The judge also made a very stern comment saying a trial wouldn't happen until the new year.

Also, during this time of continue to pay full child support and hold on to a mortgage.

My lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 03:08 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Sorry let me clarify about the moving The...

Sorry let me clarify about the moving

The judge essentially said she can move as she pleaaes...just give me 60 days notice. That there is really no reason I can hold her back.

The ocl...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 01:06 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Everything that has been requested has just been...

Everything that has been requested has just been a take it or nothing since.
During the offered supervised time it was bascislly this or nothing.
Now she feels the power from ocl and our...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 12:30 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
My current work schedule is Mon to Thurs 4 - 3am ...

My current work schedule is Mon to Thurs 4 - 3am

I guess it's explained that she goes to daycare during the day.

I currently just have her Sunday 2:30 - 6:30. The judge did say in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 12:03 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Well thus far she really hasnt included me in any...

Well thus far she really hasnt included me in any decision making.

But I have no issues with what she's done so far. We live in the same jurisdiction and I would like to not have that changed....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 12:00 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Is there opportunity for me to work on the access...

Is there opportunity for me to work on the access part now and have that increased going forward while putting custody on the back burner for now.

Using the increased access to continue to build...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2017, 10:03 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Thanks triton I've been told many times I...

Thanks triton
I've been told many times I worry too much about what mom says and it's true.

The mom hasn't made any irrational decisions that I would have disagreed with. Everything she's done...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2017, 09:21 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
I've taken three different parenting courses thus...

I've taken three different parenting courses thus far. I've gone to weekly counselling for the past 5 weeks which I may cut down to a monthly/biweekly thing as it's nice to talk to someone but...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2017, 09:11 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
My ex is a good mother. I've never argued any of...

My ex is a good mother. I've never argued any of that. She has a serious distaste for me mostly brought on by the court process.

She has attacked previous mental health problems of what's said in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2017, 09:00 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
Is it possible to decide on a gradual increase in...

Is it possible to decide on a gradual increase in access for now than save custody issues for further down the road?

Such as in interim order? Or is it likely the courts would want the whole...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2017, 07:37 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
The ex feels a lot of confidence at this point...

The ex feels a lot of confidence at this point with the ocl in her favor and after the settlement conference.

Obviously I on the other hand not so much. My lawyer did mention it was a gamble to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2017, 10:38 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,009
Posted By Dad1985
My lawyer said the exact same thing when we...

My lawyer said the exact same thing when we finished. She said look at the pros...in this jurisdiction you won't get any more extreme then that.

I do not want to sign off on sole custody. I am a...
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